First For Women

Before-bed read

Newly divorced and feeling alone, Jennie Ivey received a comforting blessing in her mailbox. Little did she know that tiny token of love would spark an incredible journey that healed her in more ways than one

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Ishuffled to the end of the driveway and opened my mailbox, certain that it wouldn’t hold anything interestin­g. After 35 years of marriage, my husband and I had recently separated, and I had moved to a new house. The change-of-address form I’d turned in at the post office hadn’t yet made its way through the system, so I rarely received anything other than mail addressed to “Occupant.”

But this day in early October was different. Inside the mailbox, resting atop a grocery store flier and an ad for a pest-control service, sat a pumpkin. It was bright orange, perfectly round and about the size of a softball.

“What in the world?” I muttered to myself as I picked it up. On one side was a jack-o’-lantern face drawn on with black marker. On the other, these words: Happy Halloween and

God bless you! And there was a postal sticker, meaning that this strange delivery had actually come through the mail. Who would have done such a thing? And why?

As I made my way back to the house, I couldn’t help but smile a little. It had been a long time since anything had happened to brighten my day. The breakup of my marriage had been devastatin­g. Even though I remained in the town where I’d lived for decades

and was surrounded by people I knew, I felt hurt and frightened and very much alone. But in my hand was proof that someone was thinking about me, that someone cared.

I put the pumpkin on the tray in the middle of my coffee table, wondering if I would ever discover who had sent it. As the days passed and I settled into the new routine of living alone for the first time in my life, that happy little pumpkin somehow made me feel a tiny bit better every time I looked at it.

Every now and then, I would ask friends who knew I was in the middle of a painful divorce if, perchance, they had mailed me a jacko’-lantern. The answer was always a convincing no. I asked my grown children, all of whom lived in different towns. Nope, not them. I emailed a cousin, also recently separated from her husband, who lives clear across the country. Did you send me a miniature pumpkin that says

“God bless you”? I wrote.

No, came her almost-immediate reply. “But I wish I had. What a great idea!”

That little orange jack-o’lantern sat on my coffee table all the way through Halloween and Thanksgivi­ng. In early December, when it was time to decorate for Christmas, I picked it up to throw it away. But the pumpkin was still fresh and firm and pleasingly solid in my hand. And it was still grinning at me. It seemed a shame to get rid of it. And so it nestled among jingle bells and peppermint sticks and red-and-green candles throughout the holidays.

Its happy eyes were staring at me on New Year’s Day. And that’s when I made a resolution that changed my life. Months ago, someone—and it was likely that I might not ever discover who—had performed an anonymous act of kindness that showed that he or she cared.

I could do the same.

In February, I mailed a box of Valentine candy with no return address to a nephew who had just lost his job. In March, I left a shamrock plant on the porch of a friend whose beloved cat had died. In April, I sent a stuffed Easter bunny to a colleague at work who had received a frightenin­g medical diagnosis.

And so on and so on—one anonymous act of kindness, every month of the year. Can you guess what I did in October? After learning of a neighbor whose husband had recently asked for a divorce, I mailed her a miniature pumpkin, bright orange and perfectly round and about the size of a softball. On it, I drew a jack-o’-lantern face.

And wrote these words: Happy Halloween and God bless you.

—Jennie Ivey

“Who would have done such a thing? And why? As I made my way back to the house, I couldn’t help but

smile a little.”

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