Is it safe to wax ‘down there’?

Q:

My husband’s friend told him that his wife regularly gets a Brazilian bikini wax. My husband thinks it sounds sexy and asked me to get one. I’m considering it, but I’m nervous about getting an infection. Is this safe to do?

A:

You’re a wise woman. Pubic hair is there for a reason—for protection. With a Brazilian bikini wax, the hair that’s supposed to protect the sensitive skin and mucus membranes in the genital region is removed, and because waxing can pull off tiny pieces of the skin along with hair strands, it can create a portal for bacteria to enter. Meanwhile, the waxing process creates inflammation, which can trap bacteria beneath the skin or in the hair follicles. All of this can set the stage for skin infections, infection of the hair follicles and ingrown hairs—plus, a Brazilian bikini wax hurts!

Women who are particularly susceptible to infections—such as those with diabetes or who are immunocompromised—should think twice about doing this. Also, if you have any vulval skin conditions, such as lichen sclerosus, avoid this procedure. Trimming the pubic hair is much safer, though it may not give you the look you were hoping for.

If you do opt for a waxing job, try to get a recommendation from someone you trust who can suggest a clean facility she has used herself. Before you book, ask if the practitioner is licensed by your state and has received training in bikini waxing. You should also ensure that the technician scrubs up or applies hand sanitizer before starting, wears protective gloves and has a stack of brand-new spatulas for each swipe to your skin. Use mild soap and water to keep the skin clean after the waxing, and keep an eye out for unusual, persistent redness and tenderness, which might suggest an infection.