1. Do what you want peo­ple to do.

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“For ex­am­ple, you’ve got one or two pics on your pro­file but you want other guys to have more than that. Well, you should have eight or ten pic­tures up there and just take that off the ta­ble. Have lots of dif­fer­ent pic­tures be­cause the law of rec­i­proc­ity says that if I’m talk­ing to you and you have eight pic­tures and I have one, then you’re much more likely to get more pic­tures out of me if you have them.”

2. Do not be afraid to ask ques­tions.

“Some­body wrote me about how they ar­ranged coffee with a guy they met on an app, showed up and he was 4-foot-3-inches tall. And this guy likes tall guys. I said, ‘Why didn’t you just ask?’ and he said, ‘Well, I just thought it would be rude to ask for height and weight.’ Well, I don’t think it’s rude. This is es­pe­cially true on Tin­der where you just see a pic­ture, not height or weight.”

3. Ask very early on to meet.

“Whether it’s to hook up or just grab coffee, ask to meet that night. Be­cause their an­swer is go­ing to tell you how se­ri­ous they are, be­cause some­one that’s se­ri­ous will say, ‘I can’t tonight, how about to­mor­row?’ The un­se­ri­ous per­son will say, ‘I can’t.’ Pe­riod. So I would post that as a qual­i­fy­ing ques­tion. Why go in 30 texts deep be­fore you start to re­al­ize that this guy just wants to text? Find out up front.”

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