Chappelle’s cancel culture pushback chills the joke
Dave Chappelle is in hot water again, testing the boundaries of public sensibilities so you don’t have to.
Netflix is defending his latest comedy special, “The Closer.” Critics, particularly in the LGBTQ community and their allies, want it taken down, charging his offbeat and often off-color monologue is transphobic.
By now Chappelle is more than a celebrity jokester. He’s a cultural force. His appeal, as with other topical comedians, comes from his ability to challenge the contradictions in society’s sacred cows and survive.
For example, he defends “Harry Potter” author J.K. Rowling, who has been accused of transphobia for her fears of what she calls “the new trans activism.”
Rowling recently explained she has “five reasons for being worried about it.” Among them, she mentions her charity for women and children, being an ex-teacher, her interest in free speech, her concern about “the huge explosion in young women wishing to transition,” and her experience as a victim of sexual and domestic abuse.
I don’t share her alarm, by any means, but I do defend her right to express it without being viciously attacked, which only makes opponents of trans rights more determined. It also silences the honest discussions that need to take place so she and others can learn how trans individuals really feel — and live.
Of all the criticisms made against Chappelle, he recalled, “My least favorite said I was ‘punching down’ on them. What does that mean?”
That’s a good thing for him to learn. An old saying in comedy and politics advises, “Always punch up” with your attacks, never punch down at people who are less empowered than you are.
But Chappelle had a hard time with that, he says, because he sees LGBTQ communities as gaining power and influence and respect at a faster rate than Black people.
“Gender is a fact,” he argued. Well, yes and no. The many social and psychological aspects of what comprises transgender identity are complicated and confusing, as I have found after years of reading and discussions. So I’m not surprised by the confusion.
But this example only illustrates how we need to have more public discussion about these topics, not less. In short, some topics are too complex to be easily handled just for laughs.
But Chappelle helped redeem himself as he began to close the show with memories of a friend, Daphne Dorman, a transgender woman he’d struck up a friendship with and opened a conversation about identity.
Sadly, Chappelle concluded by recounting how Dorman took her own life in 2019, shortly after defending him online.
“I don’t know what the trans community did for her,” Chappelle said, “but I feel like she wasn’t their tribe. She was mine. She was a comedian in her soul.”
He finished with an announcement to LGBTQ folks. “I’m not going to tell another joke about you until we are both sure we are laughing together.”
That was reassuring, although his final request was less so: ““Will you please stop punching down on my people?”
What? As if there aren’t also Black LGBTQ people?
Regardless of color, LGBTQ folks that I know still don’t see themselves as all that empowered. Obviously we still have a lot of talking to do in this great diverse nation of ours — and a lot of listening too. No joke.