Kalencik, Steven M.

Steven Mark Kalencik of Middletown, CT, died peacefully at home on March 6, 2022, at age 58. Steve lived independently as a high functioning quadriplegic for 43 years, following a tragic 4th of July diving accident at the age of 15. After many months at Newington Children’s Hospital, he graduated on time with the Rocky Hill High School Class of 1982. At the age of 17, he was driving his first car with hand controls, giving him independence that would define his future. At the age of 18 he was living independently in his first apartment. Steve received his Bachelor of Science degree from Southern CT State University in 2001. He worked as a Social Worker for many years, always serving senior citizens. He especially enjoyed his time with The Towers in New Haven and the Newington Housing Authority where he served as their Resident Services Coordinator. For several years following his early retirement, he enjoyed his quiet time at home with his many feline companions, while keeping in touch with friends and enjoying time with family. He was a talented artist, a model train enthusiast, and he loved baking. He had fond memories of being a member of the CT Jammers Quad Rugby team. Steve was predeceased by his beloved parents Millie Foster and William Kalencik. He is survived by his siblings Billy, Larry, Michael, Cindy, and Mary; his stepsiblings Karen, John, and Mike; many nieces and nephews; and his special friend Kim Fowler (Gagnon), his High School Junior Prom date. During Steven’s lifetime, his family, especially his Mom, Mary, Karen, and Cindy, who was there the very end for him, were his greatest support, and he loved them all dearly.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that memorial gifts be made to Pieper Olson Veterinary Hospital, 730 Randolph Rd., Middletown, CT or the Rocky Hill United Methodist Church, 623 Old Main Street, Rocky Hill, CT 06067.

A Celebration of Life is planned for Saturday, March 26, 2022, at Noon at the Rocky Hill United Methodist Church, 623 Old Main Street, Rocky Hill, CT. In the spirit of the Methodist tradition, please feel free to bring a dish to share in the Fellowship Hall following the service.