Grote, Sr., Thomas J.

It is with the saddest heart, that I, Debbie Kosak Grote, announce the passing of my incredible husband, Tommy

Grote – November 24, 2021. Born on July 25, 1951 and raised in Chester, CT, by loving parents Carmine J. and Julia M. (Slavec) Grote, he was a man that stood by his word. Family and friends were his life! But most importantly, he was the love of my life! His warmth, honesty, compassion and sacrificing for others were his most endearing qualities that drew us together. 39 years of marriage, cut too short, but we enjoyed every minute and detail of life offered with family and friends. His entire career was dedicated to the floral industry, owning Howarth's Flower Shop in Middletown, to becoming a major industry rep over the years. He will be sadly missed by his son, Tom, Jr. (Carrie) and granddaughter, Maya. He also leaves grieving his sisters and brothersin-law, Patty and Ray Maikowski, Marilyn and Terry Malcarne; nieces and nephews, Aaron, Janelle, Jim, Tessa (Chris), Vic and their children; Auntie Cat and Aunt Marie; also many cousins and countless friends including DP, DPJ, Christian and Kate. He was predeceased by a sister, Julia Ann Grote. Special thanks to South Fire District, Drs. David, Weinreb, and Malon for their compassionate care. We invite you to donate to the American Lung Association for the benefit of COPD research (https://action.lung.org/site/donation2?df_ id=31271&mfc_pref=t&31271.donation=form1) or the

CT Humane Society (https://give.cthumane.org/ give/255573/#!/donation/checkout). Per Tommy's request, there are no services. To share memories or express condolences online please visit http://www.biegafuneralhome.com. Love you MORE.