LEON PAYNE, JR.
1958-2022
Leon Mather Payne,
Jr. died peacefully at his Houston home on Wednesday, the 30th of March 2022, surrounded by his family.
His life was marked by the love he so freely gave and by the love he received in return. Leon was a true gentleman, free of pretension, who lived life with grace and gentility. Smart and athletic, and gifted with a wonderful sense of humor, Leon developed and nurtured a lifelong group — or ‘Mob’—of friends. For Leon, life was meant to be enjoyed, and he gave his family and friends a big and joyous life even as he endured many medical challenges.
Leon graduated from St. John’s School and SMU and went on to earn an MBA from the University of Texas. He met his future wife, Julie, on a blind date. Leon and Julie fell in love and over the years, they built a life together, with a love of family and friends, a passion for travel, and a grounding in their Christian faith.
In the wide and loving circle that Leon built he was known for the ‘serious fun’ he devoted as a wine connoisseur and a master griller. At times those two interests collided, and that meant that dinner might be delayed until 10 pm.
He was also an avid golfer who once made a hole in one while playing with his friends at Houston Country Club. Even so, the stories he most enjoyed telling revolved around his children, William and Mary Katharine. Leon was indeed a very humble man---but he never missed an opportunity to brag about his kids.
Along with his love of family, Leon cherished his hometown of Houston. Following the example set by his parents, Leon gave generously of his time and resources. The many ways he gave back to the city included serving on the board of The Chinquapin School; the Alumni Board of St. John’s School; the Dean’s Council for the School of Social Work at the University of Texas; the President’s Council at Houston Methodist Hospital; and the Associate Vestry at
St. John the Divine Episcopal Church.
At the age of 30, Leon was diagnosed with brain cancer. After a successful removal of the tumor, Leon continued his career in oil and gas.
Years later, Leon was diagnosed with dementia and his world grew smaller. He had, however, created a resilient family that weathered storms and grew even closer.
Leon found purpose and stimulation at Amazing
Place, and we are grateful for that staff ’s kindness and care.
Leon’s family wishes to thank the doctors, nurses, and staff at Houston Methodist Hospital for years of excellent care. We thank, as well, the loving caregivers: Alma Zavala, Sharonda Dawson, Pat Taylor, and the team at Sid Gerber and Associates. A special thank you goes out to Katharine O’Brien for years as Leon’s assistant, always making the bumpy rides go more smoothly. We are forever grateful.
Leon was preceded in death by his father, Leon Mather Payne, Sr; his mother, Carolyn Wilson Payne; and by his infant daughters, Elizabeth and Sarah Payne.
He is survived by Julie, his wife of 38 years; his son, William and his wife Rebecca; and his daughter, Mary Katharine. Leon is also survived by his sister “Meem” — Mimi Payne Prioleau, whom he loved so much, her husband Charlie, and their children Carolyn and Wilson Prioleau.
Leon knew Christ, and he knew, as well, that he was going to a vineyard in Heaven. He was ready and his peaceful passing blessed his family.
A celebration of Leon’s life is to be conducted at three o’clock in the afternoon on Tuesday, the 5th of April, in the Sanctuary of The Church of St. John the Divine, 2450 River Oaks Boulevard in Houston, where The Rev. Dr. Doug Richnow, Priest Associate, The Rev. Reagan Cocke, Vice Rector and The Rev. Dr. R. Leigh Spruill, Rector, are to officiate.
Prior to the service, the family will have gathered for a private interment at Glenwood Cemetery in Houston.
In lieu of customary remembrances, memorial contributions may be directed to The Church of St. John the Divine, 2450 River Oaks Blvd., Houston, TX, 77019; to Amazing Place, 3735 Drexel, Houston, TX 77027; to Southern Methodist University, PO Box 750100, Dallas, TX, 75275, or online at smu.edu/givenow; or to the charity of one’s choice.
Please visit Mr. Payne’s online memorial tribute at GeoHLewis.com where memories and words of comfort and condolence maybe shared electronically with his family.