Moving away isn’t answer to kids’ early morning mayhem.
Dear Abby:
Suggesting that an older couple (“Upset in Washington,” June 13) move to a community for people over age 55 because they’re bothered by the neighbors’ children playing outside early in the morning is just one more example of how we have ended up living in a world of intolerance.
I would suggest that what really needs to happen is a kind and thoughtful discussion about how the kids can be taught to respect their neighbors and play more quietly in the mornings. There’s no reason why a compromise can’t be reached.
Places that amount to self-contained towns populated only by people over 55 are the product of a society unwilling to be compassionate about different needs and priorities, and unaware of the benefits of shared intergenerational wisdom and enthusiasms. Massachusetts Mommy Dear Mommy:
Like you, many readers were against the idea of the couple being forced to move because of the noise. They offered suggestions for coping, as well as opinions about the parenting of the neighbor children. Read on:
Dear Abby:
When people move into a neighborhood, they need to try to fit in rather than demand the neighbors accommodate them. That young mom and her kids are the newbies.
I say yes to getting soundproof windows. And perhaps “Upset’s” husband should have a talk with his doctor about his healthrelated sleep problems. However, ultimately, the parents must take responsibility for their young kids instead of shoving them outside for the neighbors and unlucky drivers to deal with. Let the kids play inside at 8 a.m. Also in Washington Dear Abby: In my neighborhood, the landscapers arrive at 7 a.m. to mow, blow and edge. The racket wakes everyone. The answer for us was the white noise machine our daughter got us. During a nap, I use it because garbage trucks and delivery vans make more noise than kids. Ann From Sun City Dear Abby:
I called the police because of screaming children. After they came, I never heard the screaming again. I’ll repeat what the officer told me: “Everyone is entitled to peace.” Michigan Reader Dear Abby:
Parents who fail to teach their children respect for others breed young adults who feel they’re never wrong about anything. You should have suggested the children be confined to their backyard to burn off their energy. Different Opinion