Poor Ben! LINDSAY WON’T DIVORCE HER HUSBAND

Ben Affleck has been working hard to finalize his divorce, but the same can’t be said for his girlfriend, Lindsay Shookus. The Saturday Night Live producer, 37, “is hesitating in filing for divorce” from her estranged husband, Kevin Miller, a source tells In Touch. “Ben doesn’t understand what Lindsay is waiting for.” The actor, 45, is almost legally free from Jennifer Garner and can’t see why Lindsay doesn’t have the same urgency. “Ben is ramping up the pressure for Lindsay to file and break things off,” says the source. “He’s [reminded] Lindsay how much he loves her and has been very public in his affection for her.” But the harder Ben pushes, the more Lindsay, who separated from Kevin in 2014 and lives in the same NYC building as him, seems to retreat. “Her feeling is that Ben can wait for her,” says the source, adding, “Ben isn’t used to not being able to get what he wants. He’s getting impatient.”