TODAY’S HOROSCOPE

IF OCT. 20 IS YOUR BIRTHDAY:

Use your energy wisely this year. Stay focused on what’s important to you and get ready to put an end to whatever is holding you back. Branch out and discover what really brings you joy. You are the master of your destiny and happiness. Do what’s right for you.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23):

labor over what you cannot change, or get into an argument you cannot win. Let go of what’s not working for you and embrace what is. Choose peace over chaos.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22):

Don’t

Traveling, visiting friends or family or taking on a new challenge that will stimulate your mind and result in personal growth should be a priority. Romance will enhance your life.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21):

Simple pleasures will be relaxing and rewarding. Consider what makes you happy and brings you peace of mind, and head in that direction. Avoid people who are a negative influence.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19):

If you look at your options, you’ll come up with a plan that excites you. You are overdue for a personal or professional change, so stop procrastinating and start getting things done.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19):

Don’t feel that you must follow someone who is heading down a path that isn’t right for you. If you follow your heart, you will achieve happiness and gain respect.

PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20):

Participate in an entertaining event. Spending money on loved ones is encouraged, as long as you don’t take on debt. An idea you have will promote better cash flow.

ARIES (March 21-April 19):

You’ll be faced with a change, and decisions will have to be made. Be patient and willing to compromise and work with a loved one to reach

an agreement.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20):

A getaway will have an impact on your attitude and will influence the choices you make. Romance is in the stars and will encourage you to take a chance.

GEMINI (May 21June 20):

Don’t let the actions of others cause confusion. Go about your business and take care of your needs. Choose to tackle your responsibilities before addressing someone else’s chores.

CANCER (June 21-July 22):

Turn your dream into a reality. Don’t be afraid to embrace a new adventure. Romance will improve your day and bring you closer to a loved one.

Don’t be rattled by sudden changes. Follow your instincts and do what resonates with you. An open mind and the will to take action will pay off.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22):

If you take part in something you’ve never done before, you will pick up valuable information. An encounter with someone from your past will be enlightening. Romance is encouraged.

Dear Had It: Make an appointment for yourself with a licensed mental health professional to discuss your situation and your guilt. Please do this before you have a mental or physical breakdown.

While I sympathize with your husband’s mental problems, the fact that he refuses to do all he can to fix them tells me it is time to take care of yourself for your children’s sake. Because your husband’s meds are not working, he should have mentioned that fact years ago to the doctor.

Dear Abby: For a friend’s birthday, I sent a $150 food delivery gift card, saying to put it toward meals when I visited for three days the following week. He called, told me I was “cheap” and said it was not a “gift” if it included money that would be spent on myself.

We are new friends and have never exchanged gifts. Please help me understand if I was inappropriate. — Meant Well in Utah

Dear Meant Well: You made an honest mistake. However, what you did was

Dear Abby: I am planning a trip to visit my friend in England. I studied abroad two years ago, and I’m excited to go back to my old stomping grounds and reminisce.

I got very close to this friend while I was there, and we talk on Facebook every so often. Obviously, because of the distance, we aren’t best friends, but we still consider ourselves “trans-Atlantic sisters.”

I’m on a pretty tight budget and want to start planning for expenses. Would it be rude to ask her if I can stay with her? Or should I just ask for suggestions on places to stay? — Traveler in Texas

Dear Traveler: While it wouldn’t be rude to ask, I vote for the latter option and see if she suggests it. She probably will.