TODAY’S HOROSCOPE

IF NOV. 17 IS YOUR BIRTHDAY:

Learn all you can, apply what you know and educate your supporters. Don’t walk away from a leadership position. Your input can and will make a difference. Strength will be required, and respect will be your reward. Recognize your uniqueness as an attribute, not as a hindrance.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22):

Absorb information and constructively use what you discover. What you produce will inspire you to explore new possibilities. Creative input will lead to an exciting partnership.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21):

Be careful where you leave your cash or possessions. Someone you least expect will use what you tell them against you. For best results, focus on love and romance.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19):

Your emotions will force you to make a change. Don’t stop until you are satisfied with the results you get. A personal change will lead to a professional decision.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19):

Go over important personal papers, make adjustments or update documents that are about to expire. Do something to improve your health. Sign up for a program that will encourage personal gain.

PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20):

Let your intellect take charge, and put your emotions on the back burner. It’s essential to do what’s right and to refuse to let outside influences lead you astray. Moderation is encouraged.

ARIES (March 21-April 19):

Spend time sorting out what you want to do next with someone you trust to offer solid advice. A romantic evening will help alleviate uncertainty.

TAURUS

Time spent at home with the people you love will encourage better relationships. Raising important issues may lead to a heated discussion, but it will also help

resolve problems.

(April 20-May 20): GEMINI (May 21June 20):

Offer to do only what’s feasible. If someone tries to guilt you into doing something you cannot afford or shouldn’t do, have enough sense to walk away. Do what’s in your best interest.

CANCER (June 21-July 22):

You have plenty to offer. Get involved in a debate that will bring about change. Your experience will carry weight, and your articulate way of expressing your views will be impressive.

Don’t dwell on what isn’t working for you. Get out with friends who share your interests and enjoy what life has to offer. Today is about living in the moment.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22):

What you have to say will affect the outcome of a situation you face. Stick to a moderate lifestyle and set a good example. Protect your possessions.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23):

If you want to change, begin with yourself. Update your appearance, take control of your health and share something special with a loved one. Romance is in the stars.

Dear Wants: Many times a patient will feel hesitant to tell a therapist that a line of conversation seems uncomfortable or irrelevant. However, because it is uncomfortable you should NOT let that stop you. Your therapist may explain to you why he is pursuing the issues. You can then accept or reject the explanation. If you continue to feel uncomfortable after that, you can “disengage” via a letter or a phone call.

Dear Abby: I don’t know how to refer to the man I love. We are both older and have been living together for years. Introducing him as my “boyfriend” makes me feel like a kid in a short-term relationship. I can’t use “husband” because we get our full benefits being single. (If we marry, we could lose half our income.)

I tried “partner,” but people assumed I was speaking of a business partner or a same-sex partner. “Lover” comes across as an extramarital affair. There has to be another word for a couple who lives together for years, like in a marriage, but who cannot marry.

Dear Unclassified: You might refer to the gentleman as your honey, your sweetheart, your loved one or spouse — or simply by his name. Most of the people with whom you are speaking probably know you live together, and if they are new acquaintances, there is no

Dear Pet Lover: If your sweet hubby feels the need to pet and cuddle a puppy, tell him he can do so at the local shelter. Then suggest that if he wants to adopt a dog, it should be an older one from a shelter or rescue group.