Las Vegas Review-Journal (Sunday)
Equality is her mission
From military to ERA, Spearman shows resilience
PAT SPEARMAN knows all about overcoming discrimination.
She’s a gay African American woman who served in the military when women weren’t wanted and gay people were prohibited. She’s an ordained minister who served in churches still struggling with how to treat gay people.
“There’s not any part of me that I can bring to the conversation that has not experienced discrimination,” said Spearman, a Nevada state senator since 2012. “As a woman, I’ve experienced discrimination. Discrimination in life. Discrimination in the military. Discrimination even in church.”
“Equality,” she said, “might as well be my middle name.”
In fact, the word equality will always be associated with Spearman’s name, after she successfully carried the bill that saw Nevada ratify the Equal Rights Amendment in 2017. At the time, some derided the move as purely symbolic, a distraction from more important legislative business.
But now, with Illinois and Virginia also ratifying the amendment that would bar discrimination on the basis of sex nationwide, the issue has new life, despite significant legal hurdles that remain before it’s officially enshrined in the Constitution.
Those hurdles didn’t stop Spearman.
In fact, the 64-year-old
started her push to ratify the ERA in 2015, after a “red tide” election put Republicans in charge of both houses of the Legislature and all the state’s constitutional offices for the first time in decades. The bill didn’t emerge from committee that session.
But after the Democrats won back control in 2016, the bill was fasttracked. Just a month into the 2017 session, Spearman, wearing suffragist white, took to the Senate floor to argue for it.
After calmly dismissing a series of ridiculous arguments (that it would allow a person to marry the Eiffel Tower, for example, or would prohibit men from opening doors for women), the woman whom colleagues call Pastor Pat brought home a fiery close.
“Galatians 6:9 says, ‘Be not weary in well doing, you will reap the harvest if you do not faint,’ ” she said. “We got tired, but we did not faint. We became weary, but we did not faint. We were vilified, ostracized and criticized, but we did not faint. I encourage my colleagues to support and pass this legislation. We persist, in the name of all that is good.”
By the time the speeches were finished and the votes were cast, there were 13 ayes and eight nays. Nevada had ratified the ERA.
“I think she is probably the most tenacious, articulate speaker on this issue that I have ever heard,” said fellow state Sen. Joyce Woodhouse. “She saw that this could happen.”
A vagabond life
Spearman was born in Indiana. Her mother was a traveling evangelist who moved frequently, sometimes without having a place to stay. She remembers sleeping in the back of a 1962 Pontiac Bonneville and washing up in a gas station restroom.
She and her siblings agreed: When they turned 18, they were going to pick a place and stay there, never moving again. “I didn’t like moving a lot,” she said.
So she attended college in Texas on a music scholarship. When the tuition went up but the scholarship money didn’t, Spearman moved to Virginia, where she had another scholarship.
‘ What you see is what you get. She’s really genuinely the same person whether there are cameras around or not. ’ Jason Frierson Nevada Assembly speaker
But she had joined the ROTC during college in Texas and found one of her callings in life — the military.
“I was good at it,” Spearman recalls. “It helped me with confidence.”
Spearman ironically built a career in an institution where she’d be required to move about every three years, to places as diverse as Texas and Korea, Panama and Colorado. Spearman was a military police officer, eventually rising to the rank of lieutenant colonel in the Army.
Of all her duty stations, Spearman said, she will most remember her stint at the Pentagon, but not because of the proximity to power. Instead, she recalls preparing reports for soldiers killed in action during the first few years of the Iraq War.
Spearman pauses when talking about it, her hands covering her face, recalling the numbers and names she said she can still see even after all these years. This animates her passion for working on issues important to veterans, she said, along with her contempt for anyone who dares to politicize military service.
“Sen. Spearman is just deeply passionate about everything she does,” said Nevada Assembly Speaker Jason Frierson. “She really puts her emotion into it.”
Frierson said Spearman has even been known to break into song on occasion, and that she’s possessed of a fine singing voice. But, above all, Spearman is authentic, he said. “What you see is what you get. She’s really genuinely the same person whether there are cameras around or not.”
A woman of God
Spearman said she left active duty — a superior officer told her she was unlikely to be promoted to full colonel — to attend seminary in Austin, Texas.
“I wanted to learn what the Bible actually said, rather than what people said it said,” she recalled.
She studied Hebrew and Greek, among other pastoral disciplines, and was ordained, first in the Pentecostal movement, then in the African Methodist Episcopal Church and finally as a United Methodist.
But even in the church, she said she faced discrimination. She would be invited to preach at Baptist or Pentecostal churches but be introduced as “the speaker,” rather than “the Reverend,” a title that comes with ordination. She would be asked to stand in places other than the pulpit — subtle but
unmistakable signs that a woman preacher wasn’t as fully accepted as her male counterparts.
“The only thing those things really do is they make you stronger,” Spearman said.
Yet she was still in the closet, knowing that coming out in the military could have cost her her commission and coming out in her faith could have cost her her ministry.
“I couldn’t keep faking it,” she said. “Every time I get in the pulpit, I’m telling the truth, but I feel like I’m living a lie.”
Eventually, she said, she grew tired of living under that cover. As the nation debated the wisdom of the “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy, Spearman came to a decision: She was done hiding. She left the ministry before finally coming out in 2010.
A memory that remains strong is her preacher mother, suffering from terminal renal failure, calling her to her bedside.
“There’s nothing wrong with you. I love you,” her mother said. That, and her life experience, led her to conclude that equality — for women, for African Americans, for LGBTQ people, for the poor — was a cause she was willing to fight to advance.
“For me, anything that has equality in it is worth fighting for,” she said. “There’s never been a time that I haven’t fought for equality.”
Many members of the public don’t see Spearman’s religious side, but it’s something her colleagues appreciate.
“She was my rock,” Woodhouse said, recalling Spearman’s help during a time of personal family tragedy. “She really lifted everybody up, and I will love her to death forever for that.”
‘ For me, anything that has equality in it is worth fighting for. There’s never been a time that I haven’t fought for equality. ’ Pat Spearman Nevada state senator
A long time coming
Spearman didn’t know she would lead the ERA fight when she ran for state Senate in 2012, a long shot against an entrenched, conservative Democrat named John Lee who had held the seat for nearly a decade.
The defeat of the ERA in 2015 was a tough break. But Spearman has a knack for seeing what’s possible, rather than the obstacles to what’s possible. When people told her the measure was purely symbolic, she referred to the Pledge of Allegiance, a symbol of the country, or a wedding ring, a symbol of a marriage.
If the ERA is a symbol, she said, “it’s a very powerful symbol.”
When people said the legalities would get in the way, Spearman was undaunted.
In the 2016 election, the ERA was her mandate. “Really, I ran on that,” she said.
Then-Senate Majority Leader Aaron Ford said he had promised Spearman the bill would return if the Democrats took over the state
Senate, and he kept that promise, even mentioning it in his speech to kick off the 2017 session.
“The fight for equality is something that is deep in her bones,” Ford said. “I was willing to stand on principles of equality but also on the symbolism.”
Ford saw the arguments on both sides of ratifying the ERA. But he also saw how much it meant to Spearman, a close friend he calls “sis” in texts.
“I think Pat Spearman is unafraid to run for the things she believes in,” Ford said. “She’s not going to be ignored.”
But Ford said she’s not a lone wolf, either. “She’s a team player, 100 percent. She’s absolutely a team player.”
And in a game like politics, players who hog the spotlight don’t tend to generate the kind of affection that Spearman’s colleagues seem to have for her. Ford said she texts him regularly with encouraging words, even now that he’s been elected the state’s attorney general.
Once Nevada had ratified the ERA, other states came calling. Spearman spoke to lawmakers in Illinois and Virginia, giving advice and helping with arguments. She addressed the National Organization for Women’s annual convention. Her philosophy was clear: Try to change the minds of people in elected office, but if you can’t do that, then change the officeholder instead.
“Once we (in Nevada) did it, it caught fire,” she said. “This is going to happen. What you have to decide is: Are you going to be standing on the right side of history, or are you going to be watching from the sidelines when it gets done?”
For Spearman, however, the fight for equality goes on.
“We’re not done yet,” she said with confidence. “Equality is breaking out all over the world. You can slow it down, but you can’t stop it.”