‘Success’ poem resonates with readers
DEAR ABBY: My son and his wife just gave us the news that they are expecting their first child. They have waited five years for this wonderful milestone, and I am delighted. I know they will be excellent parents.
I remember seeing a short poem in your column called “Success.” Could you reprint it? — Marie in Dayton, Ohio
DEAR MARIE: I’m glad to oblige, and I hope your son and daughter-in-law will enjoy it. It was penned by Martin Buxbaum, a noted poet from Maryland who died in 1991. It’s included in my “Keepers” booklet, which is a collection of often-requested gems that have appeared in this column. Read on: SUCCESS You can use any measure When you’re speaking of success.
You can measure it in fancy home, Expensive car or dress. But the measure of your real success
Is the one you cannot spend.
It’s the way your kids describe you
When they’re talking to a friend.
“Keepers” covers subjects ranging from temptation to forgiveness, animals, children and human nature. It can be ordered by sending your name and mailing address, plus check or money order for $7 in U.S. funds to: Dear Abby Keepers, P.O. Box 447, Mount Morris, IL 610540447. Shipping and handling are included in the price.
DEAR ABBY: My husband wants to be with other women. He has spent the last 12 years asking for a threesome. I love him and don’t want to share him with the world, but he doesn’t love me the same.
We have been together more than 29 years. He says he just wants to have fun. Since I’m not interested in swinging with him and others, should I just get a divorce? I believe he won’t be complete until he gets to enjoy his life the way he wants, and I’m tired of having my feelings hurt each time he meets someone he wants to be with.
I’m a 51-year-old woman who is still very sexually active, yet I am not enough for him. — Doesn’t Want to Share Him
DEAR DOESN’T WANT TO SHARE HIM: Your husband craves the one thing no one woman can give him — variety. It has nothing to do with your not being “enough.” You should consult an attorney about your options. I am truly sorry for your pain. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.