Recommended repairman a crack addict

DEAR ABBY: My hairdresser, former neighbor and friend recommended her unemployed brother to do some minor repairs to my home. He and his sister were trying to push me into a relationship.

My hairdresser recently mentioned that her brother was using crack cocaine again. I’m furious that she didn’t disclose her brother’s addiction sooner. Should

I let it go or confront her about this? — Styled Right in the South

DEAR STYLED: You are certainly free to ask your hairdresser why she didn’t tell you her brother had a crack habit before recommending him to do repairs in your home. It’s a fair question, if nothing is missing and the repairs were done properly. Refrain from doing it while you are angry. If you hang onto your temper, there is no reason why your relationship with the woman should end.

As to a relationship with the brother, no law says you must have one with him.

DEAR ABBY: My son (age 30) is getting a liver transplant soon, and my ex-husband (son’s father) refuses to use personal protective equipment in his encounters with others because he thinks his civil liberties are being violated. We don’t communicate often because the new wife is a very unpleasant person.

I have left posts on Facebook requesting that those who intend to help my son use PPE for at least two weeks before seeing him. So far, my ex has not responded. How can I get him to understand that this is his child and not wearing PPE could kill him? — COVID Concerned in Georgia

DEAR COVID CONCERNED: Your son’s transplant specialist should be asked to send your ex a registered letter explaining the precautions that must be taken if he visits his son and how important they are. I am crossing my fingers that the doctor will do it. But your son must understand that if Daddy is unwilling to cooperate, your son, not you, is the person who must enforce that rule because he will be immuno-compromised, and his life depends on it.

DEAR ABBY: Last year, relatives said they would attend a party we were hosting. They didn’t come, and we had to pay for their dinners. We may see them at an upcoming social event. How should we greet them? — Annoyed in Ohio

DEAR ANNOYED: What your relatives did was rude and inconsiderate. When you see them, say hello and calmly ask why they didn’t show up. Be polite, and remove them from your guest list if their answer doesn’t satisfy you.