Nature’s obstacles can’t stop wedding
Couple tie knot in spite of thrice postponing date
GRAND LAKE La. — Most couples might have wondered whether the forces of nature were against them after their wedding was moved three times because of the pandemic and two hurricanes that hit almost the exact same spot within weeks of each other.
But Emily Kitfield and Taylor Pascale were even more determined than ever to tie the knot. And in a small ceremony Dec. 5 surrounded by close friends and family, Kitfield finally got to wear her lace-covered wedding dress and marry Pascale.
“What better time than now, I guess? I mean, we finally reached the end of hurricane season. So it’s not like another storm could get in the way of it,” Kitfield said.
“Come rain or hell, we were getting married,” Pascale said.
Pascale, 22, and Kitfield, 23, were originally going to get married in October. The couple have been together for nearly four years and have a 1-yearold son, Kayson, who toddled around the wedding ceremony getting into mischief.
But Pascale said worries that there might be another coronavirus-related lockdown caused them to move the ceremony to Aug. 28. Then Hurricane Laura, a Category 4 storm, slammed ashore just miles from his parents’ home, where the couple live. Instead of getting married, the family evacuated to Texas.
Pascale remembers coming back with his two high schoolage brothers to put a tarp on their damaged roof and finding his neighborhood of 20 years almost unrecognizable. Pascale’s family had to gut a
large portion of their house and buy a trailer.
Some members of the family are now living in the trailer, while others, including Pascale and Kitfield, are staying in an addition to the house the family built before the hurricane that survived. Kitfield’s dress, which had been in the addition, came through Laura unscathed.
They rescheduled the ceremony for the October week that turned out to be when Hurricane Delta hit the Louisiana coast just a few miles from where Laura had made landfall.
Then they considered Feb
ruary — on the anniversary of when they first met — but with the number of coronavirus cases climbing again, they decided not to delay any further and pulled together a ceremony in a matter of days.
In the end, they invited a small circle of about 20 family members and friends to gather at the Pascale home as they tied the knot between two oak trees on the family’s property.
“They wanted to get married this year … no matter what. And we were just like, ‘OK, we’re supporting you. We’re doing this,’” said Pascale’s mom, Julie.
A high school teacher who has taught all the Pascale boys and is also an ordained minister performed the ceremony as three bridesmaids in maroon dresses and groomsmen in jeans and maroon button-down shirts watched.
The ceremony was a bright spot in what has been a tough year. Pascale has Type 1 diabetes, which has made him and Kitfield especially worried about the virus. He stayed home from work for three
months at the beginning of the pandemic. Pascale’s grandmother also broke her hip during the Hurricane Laura evacuation.
Pascale’s mother looked through the small crowd assembled for the ceremony and ticked through the damage to everyone’s homes. Houses gutted. Families staying with relatives. She said that at a time of so many challenges, it’s important to find the beauty in moments like the wedding.
In the end, an intimate ceremony at home felt right, Kitfield said.
“It felt more natural for it being here. I mean, we met here. It feels like home here,” Kitfield said. “Honestly … we couldn’t have picked a better way or place to do what we did.”