Putting the Past Behind Her

gourmands — she hosts the Food Network series Selena + Chef while he makes outrageous Youtube food videos with The Bear star Matty Matheson — “the menu will be off the charts. His buddy Matty, the actor and chef, will be in charge of the food, so it’s sure to be wild and unexpected.”

The pop star’s wedding dress, however, will be something more classic. “Selena can’t decide between Valentino, Oscar de la Renta and Armani,” says the source, who believes the fashion-obsessed brideto-be “will probably end up wearing all three!”

Meanwhile, the guest list is bound to be a who’s who of stars in the music and acting worlds. Taylor Swift “will be there — and probably in the wedding party — and Jennifer Aniston and Reese Witherspoon will be invited,” says the source. Selena’s Only Murder in the Building co-stars are destined to make the cut, too. “There are even whispers Steve Martin will walk her down the aisle,” spills the source, explaining how “they have a special relationship, a mix of mentor and father figure.”

Among those not expected to witness the happy occasion? Selena’s ex, Justin Bieber — with whom Benny has also worked in the past — “won’t get an invite,” confirms the source, while other “big-name snubs” are likely to include Demi Lovato, who’s had “a rocky relationship” with Selena over the years, and Miley Cyrus, seeing as she and her fellow Disney alum “have drifted apart.”

SOLID AS A ROCK

Benny makes Selena feel seen. “It’s just really important to meet someone that respects you,” she told Apple Music 1 host Zane Lowe on Feb. 23, adding that it’s also been nice to “lean on someone who understands the world that I live in.”

That shared experience in the music industry — where Benny’s built up an estimated $50 million net worth working with artists like Ed Sheeran, Katy Perry, The Weeknd, Maroon 5, Britney Spears and Rihanna — means Selena, who’s worth an estimated $800 million, can let her guard down. “She doesn’t want a prenup,” says the source. “She trusts Benny. Despite their own worries about things moving too fast, friends say Selena thinks he’s her soulmate and saved her life.” As Selena herself confessed in February, being with Benny is “the safest that I feel.”

Rocky Romance Selena and Justin Bieber, 30, finally ended their toxic sevenyear on-off relationship in 2018. She later claimed she “was a victim to certain [emotional] abuse” when they dated.

Body Shaming When online commenters criticized her 2023 Golden Globes look, Selena — whose weight has fluctuated over the years — hit back: “I’m a little bit big right now because I enjoyed myself during the holidays.”

Lupus Struggles In 2014, Selena was diagnosed with lupus, an incurable autoimmune disease. She got a kidney transplant in 2017, with actress pal Francia Raisa, 35, donating one of her organs.

Bipolar Battle Two years after spending 90 days in rehab for anxiety and depression, Selena checked into a psychiatric facility in 2018 and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. She’d been hearing voices and experiencing paranoia.