Last goodbyes to kind friend
Students recall young man killed in model-rocket blast as smart, loving
Students who lost a friend, Bernard Moon, when a model rocket exploded this week had a chance to leave the 18-year-old parting messages at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Thousand Oaks.
The notes were attached to clothespins that dangled from a red frame at the front of the church, and they described Moon as kind, happy and smart.
“Your friendship made everybody’s lives better. I learned so much from you as a mentor, friend and fellow adrenaline-junkie,” one note read.
“I looked forward to going to Berkeley with you next year and will think of you every day,” another friend had written.
“I feel like right now if you were here you would be smiling your huge smile and telling me to dance it off,” read a third note, addressed to “Bernie.” “Everywhere you went, you just lit up the room and everyone’s spirits around you.”
One just had a heart drawn in black ink.
Friends lighted candles, and a picture of Moon was projected onto the wall. About 100 people attended, including students, parents and the Thousand Oaks High School principal. Moon died at Madrona Elementary School from an explosion of what authorities called a “homemade model rocket device.”
“He was one of the smartest kids I knew,” said Jonathan Hodges, 17, who said he and Moon had been friends since eighth grade. He wants Moon to be remembered for how smart, loving and outgoing he was.
Quinn Stone, the youth director at Holy Trinity, said the gathering came about after youth ministers at some churches heard about Moon’s death from their youth groups and wanted to organize an event at which his friends could come together and remember him. Stone said Moon’s best friend, who is in his youth group, called him Monday night.
The remembrance was not coordinated with Moon’s family, who are not members of the church and were not at the church Tuesday night, Stone said.
A bright gold board inside was covered in colorful Post-it notes with additional messages to Moon. Friends who had known him since kindergarten or fifth grade complimented him on his intelligence, his thoughtfulness and his bright personality.
Stone said he would collect all the notes and give them to Moon’s family.
No one spoke publicly about Moon. Inside the church at 7 p.m., an hour after the remembrance began, some friends hugged each other, while others sat with their arms around friends’ shoulders, crying together. More stood outside, many wearing black.
At Madrona Elementary, where the explosion that killed Moon on Monday night injured another student, there was a single candle with three roses tied to the gate in front of the school Tuesday morning. By evening, the impromptu memorial had grown to include many more flowers and candles.