Girlfriend thinking of retracting invitation to boyfriend
DEAR ABBY: As were most kids of the ‘80s, I was raised to think drugs are bad. Now, however, I live in a state where marijuana is legal. My job doesn’t allow me to partake, nor do I have any interest in doing it. The problem is I invited my on-again, off-again long-distance boyfriend to visit. He says he has every intention of getting high, despite knowing my stance and discomfort. He says marijuana helped him recover from surgery and helps him sleep, and he just wants to get high. We clearly have two different opinions that will likely never be the same. He’s my best friend and the easiest person for me to talk to. Is there any hope for us or should we go back to being strictly friends? He said I can retract my invitation to
by Bigar
(March 21-April 19): Be patient when dealing with others today, because everyone has a short fuse, including you. That makes this a classic day for friction and thoughtless comments and retorts. Fortunately, after the Moon Alert is over, life will get mellow. Tonight: Money or shopping.
(April 20-May 20): Something might be going on behind the scenes or building up within you at a subconscious level that makes you easily irritated with others. Bite your tongue and let this slide, because once the Moon Alert is over today, you will feel happier. Tonight: You win!
(May 21-June 20): Expect difficulties when dealing with friends and groups today, especially female acquaintances, because the Moon is at odds with several planets. However, after the Moon Alert is over today, the Moon will be in a new sign, and you will feel a big shift. Tonight: Pleasant solitude.
(June 21-July 22): This is a poor day to challenge parents, bosses or authority figures. Don’t even go there. If you argue with someone in power, it could be nasty. After the Moon Alert is over, life will be much easier! Then you can ask for permission or approval. (And probably get it.) Tonight: Talk to friends.
(July 23-Aug. 22): Steer clear of controversial subjects like politics, religion and racial issues today, because they will be intense and nasty. Nothing will be resolved. (There are none so deaf as those who are wearing headphones.) Tonight: After the Moon Alert, you will be noticed.
(Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Steer clear of disputes about shared property, inheritances and insurance issues today until after the Moon Alert is over. Then you might be surprised at how easy it is to explore new ideas and put a new spin on things. People will be more receptive to you. Sweet! Tonight: Things improve.
(Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Today you need to cooperate and be prepared to go more than halfway when dealing with others. Avoid dissension and arguments. However, after the Moon Alert is over, everything will be more relaxed and supportive. Be patient until then. Tonight: Go with the flow.
(Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Avoid arguments about health issues, pets or anything related to your job or your work today. These might easily arise. The fact is it will be pointless to pursue them. (Trust me.) However, after the Moon Alert is over, you will establish an understanding with someone. Tonight: Cooperation is key. visit if I choose. Do I allow him to visit and get high, or move on? I just don’t understand the lure of marijuana. -CONFUSED IN COLORADO
DEAR CONFUSED: I’m not going to use this forum to debate the pleasures or the perils of marijuana. If your onagain, off-again boyfriend is unwilling or unable to respect your wishes, recognize that what is a small problem now may take on larger proportions as you continue your involvement with him. Much has been written about marijuana, both pro and con. If you haven’t already done so, it might benefit you to go online and read some of the current research. After that, if you still feel as strongly as you do, retract the invitation.
Astrology
(Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Lovers’ spats, quarrels about kids or intense debates related to sports or social plans might take place today. Definitely no fun. Therefore, be patient and bite your tongue. After the Moon Alert is over, you will be happier and ready to get things done. Tonight: Get organized.
(Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Avoid quarrels with authority figures, bosses, parents, teachers and the police today. Likewise, steer clear of domestic friction, because this will accomplish nothing and simply make everyone miserable. Tonight: After the Moon Alert is over, it’s a lovely time for you.
(Jan. 20-Feb. 18): You might be argumentative today when talking to daily contacts, siblings or relatives. Be careful, because this could trigger an accident-prone situation, especially when driving. Tonight: Enjoy mellow times at home.
(Feb. 19-March 20): Financial difficulties might arise today. Take note of the Moon Alert and restrict spending to food and gas. However, once the Moon Alert is over, it’s all systems go for your sign. Plus, you will be eager and happy to talk to others. Tonight: You have something to say.