Tragedies drive man to give ‘haven’ to thousands of babies
Group helps women safely drop off children
Levittown, N.Y. — To untold numbers of children, he’s simply Uncle Tim.
Nearly 3,300 babies across the country who otherwise might have been abandoned and perhaps died have found homes in the past 17 years, thanks in part to the efforts of Tim Jaccard, a retired New York police ambulance medic who grew weary of responding to calls of dead infants abandoned in trash cans and alleys.
“To hold a newborn infant in your arms and have to pronounce that child dead is heartwrenching,” said the 66year-old father and grandfather from Long Island. “My gut feeling was that I was being sent on these particular calls to try and see what’s going on and change it. I had to stop this insanity.”
Not only did he help spearhead a movement in all 50 states to enact “safe haven” laws that give mothers in crisis the option of leaving their newborns at police stations, hospitals or firehouses without fear of prosecution, he also founded the national Baby Safe Haven organization that acts as a go-between to make such drop-offs as safe as possible.
Leaving a newborn at a firehouse door in the freezing cold, for example, could still be dangerous for the infant. Mothers can instead call a national hotline (1-866-510BABY) and arrange a safe handover. Some give birth at a hospital and surrender the child to Baby Safe Haven representatives who work with local social services agencies.
Jaccard’s eyes redden when he talks of the tragic abandonments he dealt with in his 37 years as a medic. But there are also the more hopeful cases he documents on a bulletin board jammed with dozens of snapshots of the children relinquished through Baby Safe Haven.
“What he’s doing is ensuring that mothers are able to move forward with their lives,” said Tracey Johnson, executive director of the National Safe Haven Alliance in Washington, D.C. “And the kids get the gift of life.”
According to the alliance, 3,298 babies have been turned over with the help of Baby Safe Haven nationwide in 17 years, including 167 this year.
The holiday season often sees an uptick in the numbers. In one memorable case from last year, Jaccard said a distraught mother had called the Baby Safe Haven hotline seeking information about New York’s law just minutes before a healthy newborn boy, his umbilical cord still attached, was left at the manger of a Nativity scene at New York City church.
The reasons for such cases are as varied as the children, Johnson said, dispelling a notion that the mothers and fathers are young teenagers. Some are college students reluctant to tell their parents and can’t raise a child alone. Many are women in “toxic relationships,” with spouses already abusing older children in the home and want to shield a new baby from that fate.
Larry and Jennifer Mergentheimer of Levittown on New York’s Long Island are on the other side of the safe haven equation. Their 18-monthold daughter, Rebecca, was adopted after being born and given up in a hospital on Mother’s Day 2015.
They say “Uncle Tim” regularly checks in with the family.
“It was like winning the lottery,” said Larry Mergentheimer, a 44year-old nurse manager. “You can’t ask to complete something any more than putting a child in a home. It’s amazing.”
His wife, Jennifer, a 41year-old radiological technologist, says the precocious toddler who loves Mickey and Minnie Mouse completed their family.
“We wanted to have a baby and a family for so many years and it was such a struggle. Just to have her in our lives, it’s the greatest thing in the world,” she said.
Minneapolis — In a busy office in the heart of Minneapolis’ largest Somali neighborhood, about a dozen young men and women lined up at computers to work on résumés or apply for jobs. A few feet away stood a photo station, ready to create employee badges for those lucky enough to get hired on the spot.
The employment center, which has helped roughly 1,000 people find jobs since it opened in May, is one of several initiatives formed in Minnesota as part of a federal pilot project designed to combat terror recruiting.
Those at the forefront of these efforts say they plan to keep them going, despite uncertainty that lies ahead with a new administration.
“Our work will continue no matter what,” said Mohamud Noor, executive director of the Confederation of Somali Community in Minnesota. “We want to send a strong message: If you get people engaged, focus on their needs and are able to connect with them, you end up raising the whole community up.”
The Obama administration launched pilot projects in Minneapolis, Boston and Los Angeles as part of its broader strategy to counter violent extremism in late 2014.
Minnesota’s previous efforts served as a model for the national strategy, according to John Cohen, former counterterrorism coordinator at the Department of Homeland Security. These programs are “critically important,” he said, adding that many people who swear allegiance to groups like the Islamic State are doing so mainly because they want to feel connected.
In Minnesota, the state’s large Somali community has been vulnerable to terrorism recruiters. Roughly three dozen people, mostly Somali men, have joined militants in Somalia or Syria since 2007. Last month, nine men were sentenced for plotting to travel to Syria to join the Islamic State group. And in September, a 20-year-old SomaliAmerican stabbed and injured 10 people at a central Minnesota mall before he was shot and killed by an off-duty police officer.
Noor’s employment center was among six groups that work with Somali youth that received funding. While the federal money was one-time funding, private partnerships continue. In addition, the state of Minnesota has set aside $2 million to support Somali youth and workforce readiness.
Meanwhile, the federal DHS is moving ahead with plans to award $10 million to help states combat terror recruiting.
Cohen and others have expressed concern about the future of such programs under Presidentelect Donald Trump, who recently suggested he’d move ahead with his campaign pledge to temporarily ban Muslim immigrants from the United States. He also has suggested surveillance of mosques and Muslim residents.
Messages left with spokespeople for Trump’s transition team weren’t immediately returned.