New York Daily News

ABUSE & INJUSTICE

Yeshiva HS apologized to vics Statute of limitation­s KOD their case

- BY MICHAEL O’KEEFFE With Victoria Bekiempis

THEY GOT an apology, but they never got justice.

Thirty-four former students at the prestigiou­s Yeshiva University High School claimed in a bombshell $680 million lawsuit that administra­tors had covered up abuse for decades.

One victim claimed Rabbi Macy Gordon, his Judaic studies instructor, sprayed the pain remedy Chlorasept­ic on his genitals in 1980 and then violently shoved a toothbrush in his rectum, according to court papers. Another claimed he was attacked by Gordon, who attempted to give him a “mishey” — pinning a boy down and rubbing toothpaste on his genitals.

A federal judge tossed the lawsuit in 2014 — not because the plaintiffs’ claims against the school in Washington Heights were withoutith t merit,it butb tb because of a persistent obstacle to justice for child victims of sexual abuse in New York State. The statute of limitation­s had expired.

“We lost for one reason, and one reason only,” said Barry Singer, one of the plaintiffs in the case. “(The school) disputed none of our allegation­s and we still lost. The only thing to do now is to change the statute of limitation­s. The statute of limitation­s protects institutio­ns; it does not protect children.”

New York’s statute of limitation­s bars victims from pursuing criminal charges or civil litigation after their 23rd birthday.

Some of the accusers said administra­tor Rabbi George Finkelstei­n targeted them because they were children of Holocaust survi- vors. He begged the victims not to add to their parents’ suffering by reportingt­i hi his abuseb off students.td t

In a shocking December 2012 story by The Forward reporter Paul Berger, former Yeshiva University President Norman Lamm acknowledg­ed he failed to notify authoritie­s after students told him they had been sexually abused at the school. School officials quickly offered what they called a “profound apology.”

Attorney Kevin Mulhearn, who represente­d the plaintiffs, said the statute of limitation­s provides institutio­ns such as Yeshiva University High with a playbook on how to dodge responsibi­lity in sexual abuse cases.

“Keep the abuser on the staff and hope it all blows over,” said Mulhearn, who has also represente­d sexual abuse victims at Poly Prep Country Day School in

Brooklyn and the Horace Mann School in the Bronx.

“H “Hope theth victimsi ti don’td ’t filefil a report with police or file a lawsuit. Run out the clock until the victim turns 23. I can’t think of a more horrific scenario.”

Singer, who attended Yeshiva University High School from 1972 to 1975, says Finkelstei­n abused him several times, sometimes in front of other students.

During one incident, according to court papers, Finkelstei­n grabbed Singer from behind, pushed him over a stairway railing and groped him under his waist. The administra­tor claimed he wanted to make sure Singer was wearing tzitzis, knotted ritual fringes required by Jewish law.

Finkelstei­n also forced Singer to wrestle with him several times — and “humped” the student as Singer fought off his advances, the papers say.

Singer says he struggled with i intimacyti as a result lt of f theth abuse,b which he blames in part for his recent divorce. He is distrustfu­l of organized religion and the lawsuit says his relationsh­ip nship with his parents deteriorat­ed d because they believed d he abandoned Judaaism.

“I have been in n therapy for years,” he said. “I’d like to be compensate­d for or what I have spent onn therapy.”

A spokesman for or Yeshiva University High School declined to comment Wednesday. Finkelstei­n and Gordon could not be reached.

Mulhearn based the lawsuit on Title IX, which prohibits educationa­l institutio­ns that receive fed- eral aid from engaging in sexual discrimina­tion, harassment or abuse,b and d arguedd th the clockl k on the statute of limitation­s began ticking when Singer and other plaintiffs learned the high school had covered up decades of sexual a abuse.

Mulhearn and Singe er both said Manhatta tan Federal Judge John K Koeltl was hostile and d dismissive when they a appeared in court. “He w was offended we were a asking for justice,” s said Singer, 58, who o operates a Midtown rare books shop. “I thought, ‘What happened to you as a child?’ ”

Koeltl, who declined to comment for this story, dismissed the case in 2014, agreeing with the high school’s attorney that the statute of limitation­s had long expired in the case.

M Mulhearnlh filedfil d an appeal l with ith the 2nd Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals, but a three-judge panel agreed with Koeltl. Mulhearn argued in court papers filed March 18 that the judges agreed that Koeltl had erred — and instead coached the school’s attorney to attack his Title IX argument instead of simply arguing that the statute of limitation­s had run out.

Singer said that even though his case is most likely over, he supports the Child Victims Act, the bill that would eliminate the statute of limitation­s in sex abuse cases, because it will provide relief to future victims.

“I really think the state legislator­s who are blocking this should be brought up on obstructio­n-ofjustice charges,” he said.

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Were you a victim of child sex abuse but couldn’t press charges or sue because of New York State’s statute of limitation­s? Tell us your story at: ProtectKid­s@NYDailyNew­s.com Barry Singer (main photo), one of 34 students claiming that at...
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