New York Post

If you're about to hit a half-century, rejoice Science shows the best life is right ahead of you

- JONATHAN RAUCH

WITH all the reasons for Americans to feel worried, it’s fun to imagine an alternativ­e reality, one in which beneficent aliens descend from the sky with an offer we would be crazy to refuse. “We propose to bestow upon you an additional 10, 15, eventually 20 healthy, vigorous years during late adulthood, the most emotionall­y rewarding and pro-social time of life. This is perhaps the greatest gift any generation of humans has ever received, and to grasp it, all you need to do is overcome your ownmental obstacles.”

Except for the part about aliens, that story is not science fiction. It is reality right now.

Thanks to heroic advances in medicine and public health, Americans are living longer than ever before. Increased longevity is not news, but what fewer people realize is that recent findings in psychology, brain science and economics all confirm a surprise: Contrary to the stereotype of late adulthood as a time of relinquish­ment, sadness and decline, it tends to be the most satisfying time of life. Yes, the aging process works against happiness — but only through middle age.

Most people do not have a crisis in midlife, but many do experience a difficult period of restlessne­ss and disappoint­ment. That, however, is not because anything is wrong with their attitudes or their lives; it is the result of an emotional reboot as our values, our expectatio­ns and even our brains shift our goals away from chasing status and achievemen­t and toward building connection­s and community with others — values that not only increase our own contentmen­t but also benefit those around us. Even into our last years, the ticking of the aging clock seems to help us stay positive even in the face of physical decline.

There’s just no way around it: More life at what is often the best time of life is good news for hu- mans, socially as well as individual­ly. Truly a gift. But can we grasp it? Only if we update some outdated assumption­s that stand in the way.

First, the three-stage life paradigm is obsolete. We cram educa- tion into the earliest years, then work during our prime and then retire to do more or less nothing; at least, that is the expectatio­n, and schools, jobs and pensions are all structured to support it. But grow-

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