Fear Grooming
The left has given parents real cause to worry
ASET of unsettling images made the rounds on social media last week. In them, a lingerie-clad man, wearing a bra top, garter belt and fishnet stockings, is seen playing next to young children in a Lego pit at an Australian museum.
An anonymous Twitter user posted the images after complaining to security about the man and not feeling satisfied with its response. After investigating, the museum issued a statement saying it wanted to be a “safe place where everyone feels welcome,” and the man and his friend “had not done anything wrong.”
Welcome to yet another example of progressive acceptance being pushed to the extreme. Although it offers some consolation to know that the individual in question reportedly kept to himself, these types of incidents and the ambivalence they inspire reflect an increasing normalization of sexualizing children. We’re headed in a frightening direction.
In America, leftist activism has infiltrated schools under the banner of sex education, successfully molding the vulnerable minds of children beneath their parents’ noses. This has happened again and again, laid bare in grade K-12 classrooms by way of inappropriate educational materials like obscene class assignments, sexually explicit books and lessons about masturbation.
Some may argue, as I once did, that these materials are, by and large, misunderstood — that they are meant to encourage children to have healthy views about their bodies and offer them the necessary language to report sexual abuse, if it occurs. I revised my opinion upon realizing how this very open-mindedness about sexuality is being exploited by those with less-than-pure intentions.
US Department of Education research estimates that one in 10 students experiences sexual misconduct by a teacher at some point from kindergarten through high school. This translates to millions of affected children.
If you have doubts, consider a recent case in which a highschool counselor who organized a drag-show performance for students was arrested for allegedly having sex with a 15-year-old girl attending the school. As someone who has had many drag queens as friends, I have to wonder why anyone would take it upon herself to introduce minors to a highly sexualized subculture.
Of course, educators (or parents) shouldn’t be immediately suspect if they have progressive views about sexuality or are in favor of sex education. As a former sex researcher, I believe we should lessen the stigma that surrounds conversations between adults about sex.
From my experience studying paraphilias (unusual sexual interests), many paraphilic individuals struggle with unwarranted feelings of disgust and shame. So I understand the desire to turn these feelings on their head and embrace and celebrate one’s sexual expression.
But this celebration should remain in the privacy of one’s home, not foisted upon unaware children. Most law-abiding people, whether or not they have a paraphilia, would surely agree. It is morally questionable and potentially predatory for an individual to knowingly expose children to any of these ideas or ideology.
As to why someone would feel compelled to don fetish wear in public and in the presence of children, there are several possible reasons. Exhibitionists find it sexually gratifying to expose their private anatomy to unsuspecting people without their consent.
Somebody with transvestic fetishism, also known as a penchant for sexual cross-dressing, is sexually aroused by wearing women’s clothing and underwear. An extension of this is autogynephilia, which translates from Greek to “love of oneself as a woman.” This one paraphilia involves arousal at the thought of having female anatomy and identifying as a woman when interacting with people.
Sexual masochism can be found in men who enjoy being forced, often by a female partner, to sexually cross-dress in public (commonly dubbed “sissification” in online spaces).
Paraphilic infantilism revolves around taking on the behavior and dress of a child and playing with children’s toys. This is not necessarily due to having a sexual predilection for children; however, choosing to voluntarily spend large amounts of one’s time in places frequented by kids, regardless of whether someone partakes in paraphilic infantilism, can be an indicator of pedophilia, which is the sexual attraction to prepubescent children.
Sexual abuse usually involves the process of grooming a child. This consists of spending large amounts of time with them, encouraging secrets and fostering a relationship with their family to procure sexual access.
Parents should know they have a right to safeguard their children and voice their discomfort in educational settings, at public events and otherwise. The depraved will continue exploiting those who are well-meaning, dismissing and gaslighting parents into believing this is the new normal.