Oahu quality time
Avoiding touristy crowds, creating perfect family beach getaway is easy on Hawaiian island’s North Shore
HALEIWA, Hawaii — “Could this be more perfect?”
My family and I couldn’t stop turning to each other and saying that on the first evening of our October vacation as we sat around an umbrella table on our rented beach cottage’s wooden deck, 20 feet from the sand.
We sipped homemade mai tais made of canned Hawaiian Sun lilikoi fruit drink bought at the Foodland supermarket just up the road. Topping the cocktails were splashes of light rum and black rum, garnished with a wedge of fresh pineapple, a slice of lime and — we found them in our perfect beach cottage’s kitchen cupboard — little paper umbrellas.
We took in the view of palm trees, golden sand, azure waves, surfers and the setting sun, and asked again, “Could this be more perfect?”
Travel can be about exploring other cultures, and that can be a richly rewarding reason to go. Travel can be about adventure, hiking or paddling in some exotic setting. It can be about trying new foods, or sipping wines from a famous vineyard.
And sometimes travel can be about teaming up with your daughter and her boyfriend to finish a challenging 1,000-piece jigsaw puzzle before you have to pack up and go home.
That last one was a key part of our vacation, which was, in the bigger picture, all about reconnecting with family.
It happened in a classic Hawaiian rental cottage on one of the most beautiful beaches anywhere, and I highly recommend the experience.
Here are some thoughts about what made this getaway among the best ever, and how to do it yourself.
My Seattle-based daughter and her partner, both 25, had been traveling and working in Australia and New Zealand for 14 months. My wife and I missed them, they felt ready to come home, and meeting them on their way back, in Hawaii, seemed like a dandy rendezvous.
They had just completed a winter of work at a New Zealand ski area. The idea of a week on a tropical beach suited them fine.
The North Shore of Oahu was our pick, for relatively easy access to Honolulu International Airport while retaining a low-key, surfer-culture vibe.
I spent hours combing vacation-rental websites. I finally zeroed in on a two-bedroom beach cottage, of maybe 1950s vintage, on a famous surfing beach. The VRBO. com (Vacation Rentals by Owner) website listed it for about $300 a night, rented by the week.
I usually spend less on lodging. But I don’t usually stay in beachfront accommodations with the ocean roaring all night outside my open window. And in Hawaii it’s easy to spend much more. This place was a find.
Sweetening the deal: I knew from previous visits that a pleasant 3.5-mile bike path parallels the main road along the North Shore, including where this rental was situated. One of my good ideas before leaving home: I went online and found a bike-rental outfit that would deliver bicycles to our lodging. I signed up to have bikes delivered the morning after our arrival, for five days of use.
Some tips on planning your own perfect family retreat on Oahu’s North Shore:
■ First, don’t over-plan. Give yourself at least a week, healing you of hometown stresses and letting you all get reacquainted — whether you’re strolling the beach with a cup of coffee at sunrise, sipping a Kona Brewing longneck over a card game on the lanai, or dipping toes in the surf as the full moon rises over the Pacific (yes, check the moon schedule before you book!).
■ Enjoy those bikes. We parked the rental car for most of the week and biked to Shark’s Cove snorkeling beach, or to the supermarket, or to get shaved ice. The bike delivery folks were helpful, friendly and punctual, and our bikes came with locks, helmets and removable baskets that could be used while shopping as well as for toting groceries home (northshorebikerentals.com).
■ Eat well. Rent a place with a good outdoor grill. (Our cottage had a choice of propane or charcoal.) Sometimes you’ll see fishermen along the road with an ice chest of fresh ahi for sale. And there’s a farmers market in Waimea Valley on Thursday afternoons (farmloversmarkets.com/haleiwa-farmers-market) where you can stock up on local papaya, bananas and dragon fruit, a hot-pink-skinned fruit that tastes like a cross between kiwi and watermelon.
We also biked to breakfast at the famous Ted’s Bakery, the only restaurant in the world where I have ordered fried Spam (with fried rice and eggs). We returned to the cottage with one of Ted’s trademark Chocolate Haupia pies, with dreamy-creamy layers of chocolate and coconut ($12.88, tedsbakery.com).
■ Let serendipity work its magic. When we saw a green coconut freshly dropped from a palm in front of our cottage, I acted on a hunch and went to search the cottage’s tool shed. Sure enough, there was a machete. Every Hawaiian gardener’s “go-to” tool, it was just the thing for lopping the top off a coconut so we could sip the cool, refreshing water inside. m Make your own music as the sun goes down. A ukulele is easy to carry with luggage, my daughter found. Or buy one in Honolulu, where locals make some of the world’s finest handcrafted ukes (see koaloha.com or kamakahawaii.com). m Take your favorite old beach films; most vacation rentals have DVD players. Enjoy movie-and-popcorn nights. (Our perfect cottage had DVDs of famous surfing footage.)
■ Take your favorite card games, which pack easily. We relearned how to play Uno, which was on the game shelf in our cottage.
■ Watch the surfers. They were catching waves right in front of our place, morning till night. Slather on the sunscreen, kick back on a lounge chair and enjoy the action. In winter, the surf here can be as high as a house. (For a first-timer lesson, try Waikiki, where the waves are tamer.)
Mostly, just relax and get to know yourselves again. I’ve traveled to many wonderful places and had excellent adventures. But this was the best pure vacation I’ve had in years.
A homemade mai tai and a sunset view of the surf from a cozy beach cottage make for relaxing, memorable evenings on Oahu’s North Shore.
The writer’s cottage came equipped with beach chairs, an umbrella and basic snorkel gear. After springing for a couple of inflatable swim rings at an ABC Store, the family was all set for a day on an Oahu beach.
Haleiwa, on Oahu’s North Shore, is the anchor community for the more laid-back side of the Hawaiian island.