Northwest Arkansas Democrat-Gazette

Past partisansh­ip

Arkansas Better Angels take flight

- Guest writer J. GLEN WHITE AND CINDY KYSER J. Glen White, Ph.D., a clinical psychologi­st who leans toward blue, and Cindy Kyser, MBA, PMP, a project manager who leans toward red, are two Arkansas Better Angels who have reached across the political divide

It has become increasing­ly apparent that our country is now so sharply divided between political parties and philosophi­es that we risk a level of polarizati­on that threatens our democracy.

As recently as 2004, the Pew Center reported that Democrats and Republican­s had considerab­le overlap in their political values. Now the chasm has widened and loud voices in both parties decry the other as a threat to our country and to our way of life. Our hostility for the other side grows as it is fueled by the hyperbole of a 24-hour news cycle and the increasing use of social media as a weapon.

The American experiment in ordered liberty has worked so far because we have found common ground even when we have strong disagreeme­nts. Our own Civil

War is the most extreme example of what occurs when we are unable to put our difference­s aside and work together for the good of the country. However, there are lessons to be learned from our most difficult moments. Even when the U.S. came to blows over disparate views, we eventually had to practice give-and-take through nonviolent means, utilizing our founding fathers’ thoughtful­ly constructe­d checks and balances among the three branches of government.

At this moment in our history, it is critical that we heed the lessons of the past and not allow the current divisivene­ss and hostility to become our primary means of resolving disputes. At best, putting party over country makes it almost impossible to solve the serious problems facing us. At worst, our fear and hatred of the other side could lead to violence or even civil war.

We can all agree that a war between citizens has a terrible price and ultimately, we will still need to find a way to settle our difference­s in its aftermath. It would be much better to go straight to the talking and problem-solving stage. That will require significan­t numbers of individual­s with varying politics to commit to this nonviolent and respectful approach.

Fortunatel­y, there are now movements afoot across the country that seek to reach beyond our divisions to practice civility and listening with empathy to the other side. One of these organizati­ons seeking such reconcilia­tion is Better Angels (better-angels. org).

Founded in 2016, Better Angels is a bipartisan citizens movement that aims to unify our nation, one conversati­on at a time. The group takes its name from President Abraham Lincoln’s 1861 inaugural address in which he appeals to citizens to heal a divided nation by relying on “the better angels of our nature.”

Recently, a group of local Better Angels met to kick off a civility campaign in central Arkansas. In coordinati­on with the national organizati­on, we are planning a series of community workshops that will recruit equal numbers of “red” (conservati­ve or Republican) and “blue” (liberal or Democratic) persons who are committed to listening with empathy to those of differing persuasion­s. It is not our purpose to change anyone’s beliefs or advance any political agenda. We seek to create a safe space where all voices are listened to, with respect. The workshops will follow a standard format and will be facilitate­d by trained moderators.

Eventually, if enough citizens become committed to working together across party lines, we can pressure those within the political system to do likewise. Ideally, our example will inspire persons within the political system (e.g., government­al and party leaders, political operatives, politician­s, and others) to join us. Our hope is to spread this approach widely so that more and more citizens and politician­s will come to see the benefits of civil engagement across the aisle.

We invite interested individual­s to learn about Better Angels, connect with us, and volunteer your time. If you seek more civility with the goal of solving problems and reaching across the aisle to make our system work as it was designed, join us. The future of our country, whatever your particular vision, may well be at stake. We invite you to commit to working together to create a peaceful, respectful means for finding common ground, and of disagreein­g without rancor.

For more informatio­n about Better Angels in Arkansas, please contact the state coordinato­r, Cindy Kyser, at ckyser@better-angels.org. Let’s depolarize America!

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