HELPFUL HINTS

DEAR HELOISE: She had big brown eyes and a red and black brindle coat. Someone liked her, but not enough to train her, play with her or have her spayed. Ruby was left alone to roam the streets, looking for food and water, and found shelter in the shade of a tree in front of a nursing home. She had a litter of puppies, and all of them died. I saw her and brought her dried dog food, which she ate in haste. The nursing home staff captured Ruby, chained her and called Animal Care Services. I unchained her and took her home. That was 11 years ago. Her face is the color of frost, and she snores while she sleeps.

Some say Ruby was lucky to be rescued, but I’m the lucky one. While taking our “walkies,” I discovered other dog owners wanted to stop and talk about dogs. Together, Ruby and I have made several new friends. When I was sick, Ruby seldom left my side. Looking back over the past 11 years, I marvel at how sterile my life would have been without Miss Ruby.

— Norma in Texas DEAR READERS: All too often there is no happy ending. That’s why spaying/ neutering is so important.

DEAR HELOISE: Having worked as a travel agent, I have a few hints to pass on to solo female travelers:

■ It’s all right to say “no” to invitations from locals if you are uncomfortable.

■ Be aware of the dress code for the places and cultures you’ll be visiting. It’s a good idea to pack a scarf, and if you’re not interested in meeting anyone, bring a wedding ring, even if it’s a fake one.

■ Carry a small pouch and keep extra cash in it, then pin it to the inside of your bra. ■ Carry extra feminine hygiene products.

■ Be aware of your surroundings, and if you go out at night, never leave your drink unattended.

— Terri in Los Angeles

DEAR HELOISE: My daughter had a birthday on a school day, and although we had a birthday dinner planned for her, I made her lunch with her favorite sandwich, a large cookie that had “Happy Birthday” on it (written in icing) and a small gift with a bow and a note. She loved it.

— Claudette K., Kansas

DEAR READERS: Tired of sticky cheese graters that don’t come clean? Hit the grater with some nonstick spray before use.