Extra place setting at the table can help to combat the holiday blues

Dear Abby: I read that there is a suicide somewhere in the world every 40 seconds. Numbers rise at holiday time. Seeing others from the outside as they enjoy the warmth of the moment, can lead to thoughts of abandonment and despair. That’s why

I set an extra place at my table.

I can attest that it works. One year I announced in church that my home would be open to anyone. A woman came forward and accepted my invitation. We spent the day getting to know each other and bonded. Please encourage your readers to set an extra place at their table. My brother committed suicide. I move forward in his honor.

— Full Of Gratitude

In Phoenix

Dear Abby: How can I tactfully tell an elementary school teacher in whose class I assist that she uses poor grammar and words that aren’t words (i.e., “I boughten this yesterday,” or, “Her and me went to the soccer game.”)? I am fond of this teacher but feel she’s doing a disservice to her pupils. Other than that she’s a devoted, energetic teacher. It is really difficult to bite my tongue.

— Tactful In The East