Conference attendee does not want photograph taken or shared

Dear Abby: I’m going to a professional conference, which has the usual presentations, vendors and activities. Every time I go, there’s always a photographer. It’s annoying. When a photographer sneaks up to take photos, it distracts the presenter. Then the camera is usually swung around to shoot the audience.

I have been photographed many times while I was browsing through the vendors. I have never given my permission to have any of them published. The photos appear on state or national organization websites for viewing by association members (not the general public). What are my rights?

Am I the only one who is camera shy?

— Teacher On The West Coast

Dear Teacher: You are not the only person who dislikes having their picture taken — particularly without permission. Many others also do. However, if the photographer has been hired by the association sponsoring the event, I don’t think you have any choice about being photographed. You might be out of camera range if you sit toward the back of the audience.

Dear Abby: I added my 37-year-old son to my insurance policy because it would cost him almost double if he went on his own. The problem is, I struggle every month getting him to send me the money so I can pay the premium. He promises to send it but never does. What should I do?

— Can’t Afford It In The South

Dear Can’t: Give your irresponsible son a date by which you expect to have the money each month for his share of the premium. Tell him that if the money is not there when it’s time for you to send the payment that you will drop him from your insurance.