Mary Relyea Wakeman Assily

March 15, 1923 - October 15, 2020

the world together.

As her kids grew, Mary became the family historian. One of her greatest joys was family history; she loved genealogy and traced her roots back to the Mayflower. She was a member of the Mayflower Society, Colonial Dames of America, and Daughters of the American Revolution. She loved the arts and was a member of the Decorative Arts Forum of Northern California. Mary was a long- time member of Lakeside Presbyterian Church in San Francisco. She served as a Trustee and Deacon, and spent many hours volunteering in different positions.

In 2004, Mary moved to Rossmoor in Walnut Creek to be closer to her family and especially her four grandchildren. She eventually moved on to Atria Senior Living and finally to Diablo Assisted Living. Mary is survived by her children Joseph, John ( Ruth), and Margaret Breeding ( Bill), and her grandchildren Jennifer, Christine, Matthew, and Ryan.

The following was written in memory of Mary:

“If you live long enough, it will eventually become a big deal

Mom, sweet Grandma, your presence is still around

I still hear your voice— such a beautiful sound Kindness, warmth, humor, stories and so much more

Even after passing, your memories and love will soar”

There are no services planned. Donations can be made in Mary’s name to Bay Area Women’s and Children’s Center in San Francisco. The family would like to thank the staff at Diablo Assisted Living and at Ace Home Healthcare and Hospice, who provided exceptional care to Mary in her final years.