Mom dislikes his girlfriend from afar

Dear Abby: I am 17 and dating a 16-year-old girl. My mother lives a few states away. Every time we talk, she tells me to spend less time with my girlfriend. It always seems like she’s trying to break us up.

Teen in Love in Pennsylvania

Dear Teen: Your mother may be worried that the more time you spend with your girlfriend, the less you will have to devote to your studies, sports, friends, etc. — all of which are important at your age. The two of you need to talk further about this, so there are no misunderstandings or hurt feelings. P.S. Because your mother lives out of state, I assume you are living with your father or some other relative/guardian. It might be enlightening to know what the other adults in your life think about the amount of time you’re spending with your girlfriend. Dear Abby: I am struggling to adapt to our accelerating technological world. I have tried to find a balance, but the ubiquity of technology and our cultural reliance on the Internet leave me feeling like I have only two options at any given time — connection or disconnection — and neither one feels entirely healthy to me. This isn’t the first case of technological advancement leading to rapid cultural change and a sense of dislocation, but at the current rate, it may be the most extreme. Do you have any advice for maintaining one’s humanity while remaining culturally relevant in our increasingly technology-dependent world?

Floating in the Digital Age

Dear Floating: Just this: Try harder to find a balance, because if you are constantly online, you will be swamped. Sometimes we must disconnect and enjoy the “real world” without the constant interruption of the latest news cycle. Trust me.

You won’t miss much because the information will find its way to you. Dear Abby: What is the proper way to handle the situation when you catch the host of a party double- or triple-dipping into a bowl?

Ick! in Largo FL

Dear Ick: That’s easy. Refrain from consuming anything from that bowl.

Dear Readers: Happy Mother’s Day to mothers everywhere. This includes birth mothers, adoptive and foster mothers, stepmothers, grandmothers who are raising grandchildren, and dual-role dads. Orchids to all of you for the love you give every day.

Love, Abby