San Francisco Chronicle

Walker tripped up by chatty co-workers

- By Jeanne Phillips Write to Dear Abby at P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069 or www.DearAbby.com. Universal Press Syndicate

Dear Abby: I have a step tracker. I am dedicated to getting in at least 10,000 steps every day, most of them walking around inside my office building at lunch. I walk quickly, often with headphones on. My problem is, I’m constantly confronted by people who stop me wanting to chat. I honestly don’t have time to talk to these people because I need my steps. My exercise is important to me. Furthermor­e, lunchtime is my time to be alone and de-stress before returning to the workday.

I don’t think I should have to leave the premises to walk. Staying in the building ensures that I have the entire hour to walk in air-conditione­d comfort. How can I politely tell these people I don’t have time to talk? I’ve said, “Sorry. I need to get my steps!” only to get confused looks and questions about what I mean and how the tracking works, which sets me back by precious minutes. Any advice?

Getting to Stepping in Austin Dear Getting: Yes. All you have to say is, “This is my time to exercise,” and keep walking. Eventually, word will get around, and you’ll have fewer interrupti­ons. Your mistake may be in mentioning the 10,000 steps. Dear Abby: I never expected to be writing to you, but I am frustrated. My husband, who is a great guy, sniffles constantly. He gets very annoyed with me when I call it to his attention and says I should just get used to it. He does it at home and in the car. He doesn’t have a cold or a runny nose. I notice when we are out socially, he doesn’t sniffle the entire time.

I have tried to ignore it, but frankly it’s the most irritating sound. I read recently that there are three top irritating sounds, and sniffling is one of them. I showed the article to my husband, but he shrugged it off. I usually know how to handle situations, but I’m stumped with this one.

Hope you don’t think my letter is nothing to sniff at.

Miserable in Mass. Dear Miserable: If your husband hasn’t discussed this with his doctor, he should. It’s possible that he has a chronic sinus condition or allergies, and his problem could be easily corrected. It could also be a nervous habit.

However, there is no chance that the sniffling will stop unless he’s willing to seek treatment. I wish you luck in convincing him.

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