Pandemic amplifies distance loneliness

Dear Amy: Not long before the pandemic started, I moved across the country. I’ve tried staying in touch with people where I used to live, and I spent about six months in my new home meeting people.

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I’ve tried suggesting video or phone chats, but people I know aren’t able to/interested in more than texting.

The past three months have been isolating, and I have a health condition that puts me at high risk.

There’s not really any way to make new friends currently, so how do I deal with texting being my only form of contact? — Isolated

Dear Isolated: My first recommendation is for you to adopt a pet, if you are able and if your health allows. Shelters are offering adoptions via appointment.

Many people who are still working (remotely) are completely exhausted with videoconferencing. What seemed like a fun novelty four months ago now feels forced.

Texting is not an optimal way to stay in touch, but if you put some effort into becoming an engaging correspondent, texting can be a somewhat satisfying way of staying connected.

You could also see if your hometown friends might want to create a standing date to play an online game.

Understand, however, that many people are struggling right now, just as you are.

Your local library might host a (virtual) book club you could join. Doing this would help you to connect in-person when the world opens up.

There are numerous online communities for any interest you might have or acquire. Reddit.com is (basically) the internet’s bulletin board. I just randomly looked up “Portland/knitting” and felt instantly cheered by the photos and comments of knitters in Portland. acquaintances.