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Billy Graham eulogized at funeral
The Rev. Billy Graham’s children remember him as “America’s pastor” during funeral services.
CHARLOTTE, N.C. — The Rev. Billy Graham’s children remembered “America’s Pastor” on Friday as a man devoted to spreading the gospel, living his life at home as he preached it in stadiums, with a personable humility and an unwavering focus on the Bible. As his oldest son told the funeral congregation, “There weren’t two Billy Grahams.”
His adult children — all speakers or preachers in their own right — recalled being taught by their parents how to read Scripture aloud and deliver sermons, but also taking quiet walks with their father and feeling his embrace even when they made mistakes.
Franklin Graham, who delivered the main funeral message, said all of those qualities were part of the whole.
“The Billy Graham that the world saw on television, the Billy Graham that the world saw in the big stadiums, was the same Billy Graham that we saw at home. There weren’t two Billy Grahams,” he said. “He loved his family. He stood by us. He comforted us.”
Franklin Graham’s message, which included a call to repentance and salvation, followed remarks by his siblings in a service that lasted just over an hour before an invitation-only crowd of about 2,000.
“I believe, from Heaven’s perspective, that my father’s death is as significant as his life. And his life was very significant. But I think when he died, that was something very strategic from Heaven’s point of view,” said his daughter Anne Graham Lotz, later adding: “I believe God is saying: ‘Wake up church! Wake up world!’ ”
Those in attendance included President Donald Trump, Vice President Mike Pence and their wives. Neither Pence nor Trump spoke during the service that was streamed live online, but they met privately with the family beforehand.
The funeral planning began a decade ago with Billy Graham himself. It also reflected his family’s desire to capture the feeling of the crusades that made him the world’s best-known Protestant preacher of his era. Graham, who died last week at age 99, brought a message of salvation to millions during visits and live broadcasts to scores of countries.
The funeral served as a Billy Graham crusade told through his children. Lotz read Scripture, inserting her name into the passages to make her relationship with God more personal and breaking it down intellectually, like her father.
Youngest daughter Ruth Graham spoke of her shame after a traumatic divorce and hasty second marriage, which turned out to be a mistake.
“What was I going to say to daddy?” she said. “You women will understand, you don’t want to embarrass your father. You really don’t want to embarrass Billy Graham!”
Yet her father was standing outside waiting for her when she drove up the mountain to her parents’ home.
“He wrapped his arms around me. He said, ‘Welcome home.’ There was no shame, there was no blame, there was no condemnation. Just unconditional love.”
And oldest son Franklin, now CEO of the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, wrapped up with his father’s central theme: that the only path to salvation is to accept Jesus Christ.
While Franklin Graham steered clear of politics during his message, the Trumps and Pences were the first guests he welcomed as he began.
And his invitation to be saved by Jesus contained this barb: “The world, with all of its political correctness, would want you to believe that there are many roads to God. It’s just not true.”
Like Graham’s famous crusades, the funeral featured singers who had shared his stage in years past: Linda McCraryFisher, Michael W. Smith and the Gaither Vocal Band.
The lineup of clergy and singers from as near as North Carolina and as far away as Asia, was racially diverse — more so than the mostly white audience.
The funeral came at the end of more than a week of mourning that included crowds lining the road for a procession from Graham’s home in the mountains to Charlotte, where Graham grew up. About 13,000 people, including former Presidents George W. Bush and Bill Clinton, filed past his casket during a public viewing in Charlotte this week. And on Wednesday, Graham became the first private citizen since civil rights icon Rosa Parks in 2005 to lie in honor at the Capitol Rotunda in Washington.
Graham was being buried next to his wife in a memorial prayer garden at the Billy Graham Library, with his grandchildren serving as pallbearers. His pine plywood casket was made by inmates at the Louisiana State Penitentiary at Angola. The grave marker reads: “Preacher of the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ.”
Friday’s goodbye emphasized the message that only Graham’s earthly journey has come to an end, a point underscored by Franklin Graham as he stood behind the same pulpit his father used in the 1990s.
Graham recalled one of his father’s frequent sayings that people shouldn’t believe it when they hear the famous evangelist had died: “He said: ‘I’ll be more alive than I am now. I’ll have just changed addresses, that’s all.’ ”