Surgeon’s risky behavior must be addressed

Dear Amy: I’m in my 60s and undergoing cancer treatment.

At my appointments with my surgeon, she has worn a loose fitting, cloth mask.

She has to get very close to examine me. This has made me uncomfortable. She has unnecessarily caused me additional stress. I didn’t say anything to her either time.

In about a month she will have my life in her hands, and I don’t want her having any negative feelings toward me. I’ve written an anonymous letter about this, which I haven’t sent. I want to report her so she will use adequate PPE, but I don’t want repercussions. How should I handle this? — Cautious in Colorado

Dear Cautious: The trust you should have may be missing with this surgeon.

I shared your question with a friend who is a cancer surgeon with 30 years of experience. His response follows:

“Patient safety is paramount. Almost everyone is nervous before surgery, but you should not also carry the anxiety of mistrust with you. You should be cautious.

“Since COVID, I always wear a surgical mask and will frequently add a face shield.

“Your surgeon should create an environment where you are able to express your concerns. Ideally, you should raise your concern directly to her. How she responds will be revealing. If she is defensive, you should seek another surgeon.”

“If your hospital has a patients’ advocate’s office, report your concern to them. They may not be surprised by your report, and if needed, can help you to change surgeons.

“Surgeons are professionals with training to help them give you the best care. The surgeon should be there for YOU, not the other way around.”