Woman dismayed by technology

Dear Heloise: My mother had to check in at the doctor’s office and was dismayed to find that she was required to use a computer mouse to sign forms.

She objected, telling the staff member that she didn’t know how to use a mouse, and the woman told her to do the best she could. It resulted in scribbling instead of a signature, which was humiliating and embarrassing to my mother.

I wrote a letter to the hospital system, asking them to consider providing actual paper forms for people who are unfamiliar with technology.

Medical professionals, please consider the abilities and feelings of your elderly and disabled patients.— April C., via email

TIPPING REACTION Dear Readers: We asked for your reaction to a letter about tip jars. Here is what you said.—Heloise

“My concern about tipping is that it is now a requirement, not a choice. I don’t care for the technology at the tables for paying your bill. If you don’t eat out often, you end up asking the server for help in using it. I only want to tip on good service, and I don’t like the server standing over me while I figure out how much I want to give. —Daphne in Vancouver, Wash.

“I also get confused about tip jars at counters of shops that don’t really wait on you personally, and other services like dog sitting.

“I, too, am appalled by the jar sitting by the register. I very seldom put anything in it, unless it specifies that it is for a good cause.”— JoJo in Florida

“Tip jars on counters don’t bother me; they’ve become fairly common these days. Sometimes I contribute, sometimes not. Depends on the attitude of the ones behind the counter.”— Shirley M., Conroe, Texas