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When you know better, you will be inspired to do better

- Michelle Singletary The Color of Money Readers can write to Michelle Singletary c/o The Washington Post, 1301 K St., N.W., Washington, D.C. 20071. Her email address is michelle. singletary@washpost.com.

What’s more inspiring than the testimony of someone who faced adversity and triumphed?

Every week, during my live online chat, I invite people to talk about their financial successes. I call it “Testimony Thursday.” And what better time of year — when we express gratitude for what we have and enjoy the holiday giftgiving spirit — to share the stories of people who weathered some financial storms and worked hard to pay off their debts?

Often the road isn’t easy. The following reader found out that when it rains, it pours. She got sick and, soon after, her husband lost his job. She was able to continue working thanks to an accommodat­ing employer.

“I have never been more grateful for my emergency savings and frugal lifestyle,” she wrote. “We made minor adjustment­s to live on my salary alone, mostly ceasing our savings for a home down payment. It has been a very hard time, but I feel extraordin­arily lucky that the financial concerns are painful, but not devastatin­g.”

Another reader confronted a genuine storm: “I have been following your chats for years. Always been comfortabl­e but never saved much. Finally started a ‘life happens’ emergency fund while trying to pay down all the credit cards.”

And what do you know? Life happened. A big downpour left a puddle in the living room. “Needed a new roof,” the reader wrote. “Didn’t have it all, but had half saved in the emergency fund. Hurt a little, but not as much as it could have. Got very lowinteres­t financing for the half I didn’t have and now I’m starting again from zero. If I had listened to you earlier, I could’ve saved it all.”

Lots of people shout a hallelujah for the day when they get rid of their mortgage.

“I’ve been waiting years to tell you this testimony,” one woman wrote. “We’ve got an appointmen­t at the bank to pay off the mortgage. We have a lot to be grateful for, but my spouse has developed some serious health issues (grateful for our health insurance). Not having a mortgage means we have more flexibilit­y in how we tackle our situation. And don’t worry, we still have savings to cover medical expenses.”

Take a moment to rejoice if you too are getting close to being rid of your mortgage like this couple. “We moved into our house in 2015. Took out a 10-year mortgage of $100,000 since we are close to retirement, want to get it paid off before we retire. We have been paying extra when we can. We are finally below $50,000. I will come back and let you knoww hen it is paid off in full.”

I can never get enough of stories about people paying off debt. “My wife and I paid off all our loans (student, cars and credit cards),” another reader wrote. Now they plan on aggressive­ly going afte rthe mortgage. How did they do it all? They mostly lived off one income.

Speaking of burdens, Americans are carrying a combined $1.4 trillion in outstandin­g student loans. I’m thrilled when people drop that weight off their b ack.One person shared what that’s like.

“It feels great! I wanted to thank you for your words of wisdom and also let people know that it doesn’t have to be all or nothing .We too kamore balanced approach. I was able to get married and we paid for the modest wedding ourselves. We are a one-car family even though it can be inconvenie­nt at times. We also manage to go on small vacations every year and b oughta house within our means. I wanted people to know that their life doesn’t have to be totally on hold while paying off student loans.”

If you’ve got a testimony, I wan tt ohea r from you. Send your comments to color of money@ wash post. com. You never know. Your story might inspire someone else to do better.

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