Enjoying a party or hosting one yourself can provide boost

Do you enjoy a fun spring fling? Do you look forward to attending some grand galas this year? Are you enchanted by the food, the decorations and the people? Perhaps you’re the person people call the “host with the most”? Do you have a special flair for creating a joyful experience for your guests? That’s a talent that not everyone possesses. Whether you’re attending or throwing an event, what elements have you found to be the most important for success?

People we’ve talked to vary widely in their answers to this question. Some hosts believe in inviting a diverse group of people to keep things interesting and lively. Others have found that having a group gathering of people who already know and like one another creates a more enjoyable time. What has your experience been? Do you like to be seated next to strangers so you can meet someone new? Or do you prefer to spend more time with friends you already know and are certain to have fun with?

Another variation we’ve observed is pulling out all the stops regarding food and decorations versus more of a homegrown effort around these elements. From the use of fine china to handing out plastic cutlery, parties run the gamut in approach. Some attendees report feeling special and cared for when they’re given VIP treatment at a gathering; others feel more relaxed when it leans toward a potluck and BYOB style. Which do you prefer? Or does it depend on the occasion?

As gala-goers ourselves, we enjoy it all! We know how much care and attention to detail these events require. We like to send thank you notes and bring a gift to show our appreciation to the hosts. What are your favorite ways to thank people for inviting you to their event? What was your favorite way to be thanked by an attendee at your gala?

It’s fun to reflect on these positive memories. Your immune system and mental health enjoy a boost when you do.