The Bakersfield Californian

‘We want you to come in and feel like family’

MISSION AT KERN COUNTY STICKS TO FAMILIAR TRADITIONS AS IT SERVES 600 HOLIDAY MEALS TO PEOPLE IN NEED

- BY CHRISTINE L. PETERSON cpeterson@bakersfiel­d.com

Just like in your own home, preparatio­ns for this meal started long before Thanksgivi­ng Day. Just like in your own home, invitation­s went out ahead of time, as staff and guests of The Mission at Kern County canvassed the Old Town Kern neighborho­od and beckoned people to join in a warm dinner.

Just like in your own home, traditions were kept: the turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, stuffing, green beans, fresh rolls, and pumpkin pie.

Sure, we all have variations on the theme — tamales or lasagna or pierogi may grace your table — but the spirit of the holiday holds true: “We want you to come in and feel like family,” said Carlos Baldovinos, executive director of The Mission.

And so it was on Thursday, when some 600 holiday meals were to be served to clients of The Mission’s homeless

interventi­on services and addiction recovery programs, the surroundin­g community, and really anyone who showed up hungry for food or love. All were welcome, and volunteers arrived in force to make it happen.

“We want everyone to feel equally loved,” said Jamie Durham, director of community developmen­t at The Mission.

At one festive table, 6-yearold Paisley Evans touched her

cheek to her mother’s hand as Marlene Evans shared her journey.

“I was homeless and struggling with my own selfish needs,” the 41-year-old mother of four said. She said she was stubborn, but the women’s program at The Mission got her “cleaned up,” safe, sheltered and well on her way to reestablis­hing relationsh­ips. She’ll graduate from the

18-month program in April, she said.

Courtney Mairel, 23, found family here.

“I’d been couch surfing for like five years and I finally found something to call home,” said Mairel, who shared dinner with her 3-year-old daughter, Kendall Mairel, and has been part of the women’s and children’s program at The Mission for a year.

Before then, she had been at a hotel, and knew something needed to change. She Googled “women and children” — and there it was. She found The Mission, where she said she discovered people who helped her change, enrolled in college courses and, she emphasized, where she found God and Jesus Christ.

Christmas music filled the air — you can’t be too early! Tables and racks were full of coats, socks and hats for those who needed them. Prayers were offered over the meal, and in a tent outside the Christian Education Chapel for people seeking a one-on-one spiritual boost.

Because we’re all yearning for a little love, in words or actions. A little peace. A little familiarit­y.

Some families find those Thanksgivi­ng feelings around a formal holiday table, replete with candles and the fancy cutlery and carved turkey. Some find that playing basketball or football on a brisk autumn morning. Some watch the Macy’s Thanksgivi­ng Day Parade in their pajamas.

Just like in your own home, familiar traditions — whatever they may be — were found at The Mission at Kern County on Thanksgivi­ng Day.

 ?? ROD THORNBURG / FOR THE CALIFORNIA­N ?? A volunteer serves Marlene Evans and her daughter, Paisley, during the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County. See more photos on Page A3 and online at Bakersfiel­d.com.
ROD THORNBURG / FOR THE CALIFORNIA­N A volunteer serves Marlene Evans and her daughter, Paisley, during the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County. See more photos on Page A3 and online at Bakersfiel­d.com.
 ?? ?? Free coats, socks and hats were offered to those in need during the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County.
Free coats, socks and hats were offered to those in need during the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County.
 ?? PHOTOS BY ROD THORNBURG / FOR THE CALIFORNIA­N ?? A first round of guests enjoys the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County. Each table was covered with five layers of tablecloth­s, with each layer to be removed after one seating to prepare for the next guests.
PHOTOS BY ROD THORNBURG / FOR THE CALIFORNIA­N A first round of guests enjoys the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County. Each table was covered with five layers of tablecloth­s, with each layer to be removed after one seating to prepare for the next guests.
 ?? ?? During Thursday’s Thanksgivi­ng meal, volunteer Vicky Hardy hugs Kendall, daughter of Courtney Mairel, who is holding her daughter’s hand and is going through the women’s and children’s program at The Mission.
During Thursday’s Thanksgivi­ng meal, volunteer Vicky Hardy hugs Kendall, daughter of Courtney Mairel, who is holding her daughter’s hand and is going through the women’s and children’s program at The Mission.
 ?? ?? Victoria Medina and Yolanda McNeil get their photo taken with the Grinch.
Victoria Medina and Yolanda McNeil get their photo taken with the Grinch.
 ?? ?? Singer Roger Martin sings Christmas songs for those at the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County.
Singer Roger Martin sings Christmas songs for those at the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County.
 ?? ?? Lane Gray coordinate­s serving desserts during the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission.
Lane Gray coordinate­s serving desserts during the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission.
 ?? ?? Rep. David Valadao and Assemblyma­n Vince Fong load plates for volunteers to serve.
Rep. David Valadao and Assemblyma­n Vince Fong load plates for volunteers to serve.
 ?? ?? Volunteers serve the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County.
Volunteers serve the Thanksgivi­ng meal at The Mission at Kern County.

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