Even unscented products can cause irritation

Dear Readers: You might think the terms “unscented” and “fragrance-free” mean the same thing, but they do not.

“Fragrance-free” usually means no extra fragrance has been mixed in, but the cosmetic, drug or household item may have an existing aroma or smell from other ingredients in the product.

“Unscented” is a different scenario. It can almost be stated as “de-scented.” Unscented products typically are treated with chemicals to remove, mask or cover up scents in products. The chemicals used to “unscent” an item may be irritating to people with fragrance sensitivities, but they’re not ordinarily considered harmful or dangerous. Ask your medical professional for advice when dealing with fragrance allergies and sensitivities.

When I was helping my aunt move to an assisted-living facility, one task I did was shoot a nice set of photos of her apartment, with close-ups of her beloved things. I included one of her, smiling, in her favorite chair. I made a little book of those snapshots; she loved having it handy.

Now that she is gone, I have a small memento of her in her natural surroundings with her beloved things. And I was better able to let go of those items and not have them come to clutter my house!

Punta Gorda, Fla.

Dear Heloise: I try not to wait until the last minute to do holiday shopping. Here are some hints I’ve used through the years.

I make a list of what everyone wants, and alternate items, too, in case the original is not available. My kids know to set reasonable expectations for gift-receiving.

I research everything I can on the internet to learn about the items my family is asking for, to read reviews and to lock in the best prices.

Now, before Thanksgiving, can be a good time to purchase — supplies should be plentiful; if the item goes down in price after the holiday, the retailer should match the price — ask.

I look for free or reduced-price shipping; this is becoming more in demand. Calif.

Check with your favorite store's manager, who might have a scoop for you.

I use the plastic lids on cans of nuts as coasters. They keep the table dry and are easy to replace if they are damaged.

— Heloise Dear Heloise:

I have several tunic tops with drawstrings around the neck or waist, all with tassels. I put them in a lingerie bag first before washing; this prevents tangling.