Grass vs. trees is often a battle of genders
Trees inspire strong feelings. Sometimes they cause problems with usually compatible couples.
I realize this is going to come across as gender bias, but when trees are depicted as objectionable, it is usually the man doing the condemning. I know this is a generalization, but usually, if there is a choice to be made between having trees or having healthy turfgrass, the man is going to choose the welfare of the turfgrass, and the woman is hugging the tree.
She contends that turfgrass is high maintenance. He argues that running a mower over it once every week or two is just not, and this stance may or may not be based on the fact that he does this sitting in the cushioned seat of a shiny zero-turn mower.
He may argue that trees actually cause more work, with gutters that need to be cleaned of leaves, raking to be done in autumn, and pruning chores.
She says the shade will cool the house, lowering energy bills in summer, and that same shade will make it more pleasant to stay outside gardening, which improves physical and emotional health.
She makes the case for birds having places to perch and nest. He points out the bluebirds, robins and thrashers that forage in the lawn, and that a sunny setting offers opportunities for flowering plants that attract hummingbirds, bees and butterflies. His efforts take a darker turn when he points out the potential for trees damaging the house should they fall, or the possibility of roots invading sewer lines.
Having done her homework, she explains the importance of careful placement to avoid damage, and that certain tree species are safer choices because of their growth habits and wood strength. She explains the concept that a grove of trees is safer because the outer trees help to break the force of the wind, and that the many root systems matting together help anchor the entire group.
I have been dragged into these debates, and it seems I am viewed as the judge that will declare a ruling — or at least the vote that breaks the tie.
I see both sides. I admire my zoysia turfgrass as I roll over it on my shiny zero-turn mower, and consider it an important and useful part of my landscape, enjoyed by my dogs. If you have kids or dogs, or especially if you have kids and dogs, they need a place to run and roll, and chase balls and sticks and Frisbees.
In my landscape I have room for both shady areas and turfgrass, and am satisfied with the fact that the twain shall never meet. Usually, couple conflict comes to a crescendo when there isn’t room for both.
Carol Reese is ornamental horticulture specialist for the Western District of the University of Tennessee Extension Service.