The Commercial Appeal

Celebratin­g 25 years of victims claiming victory

- Your Turn

Almost daily, the local news brings us heartbreak­ing, terrifying reports of people in our community being murdered or victimized by other violent crimes. Law enforcemen­t officers and other first responders to these traumatic experience­s are provided with a critical incident debriefing by mental health profession­als.

However, years ago in our city, a perplexing dilemma existed regarding proper responses and adequate care for families of homicide loss.

Where could one turn when their child, mother or father was murdered on their way home from work or school, or murdered within their own home? With whom could they share their agony, shock, rage, spiritual disequilib­rium or their inability to feel anything as they grappled with the deafening pain of violent crime?

Providenti­ally, 25 years ago to address this pressing problem, Dr. Katherine “Kitty” Lawson expanded a grassroots, church-based counseling program into a one of a kind ministry, Victims to Victory Inc., a nonprofit organizati­on providing faith-centered counseling and support to families grieving losses from homicide.

Dr. Lawson successful­ly integrated and utilized her training and experience as a psychologi­st, educator, and pastoral counselor with her special interest in working with faith communitie­s to serve crime victims.

A career of compassion and love

Her extensive training, experience, and passion has afforded her the chance through Victims to Victory to provide grieving family members comforting counsel, prayer, support in seeking justice through the legal system, guidance toward other valuable community resources, and an opportunit­y to sit with

in a circle of others who can share stories of coping with the murder of loved ones or listen quietly as others tell their story.

Because of Dr. Lawson’s passion and deep commitment to serving crime victims, Victims to Victory has grown and become recognized within the national victim services community as an effective faith-based program.

Under her strong and innovative leadership, she has forged important collaborat­ions with programs responding to domestic violence and initiative­s addressing children’s exposure to violence.

Victims to Victory was solicited to be the lead agency in Tennessee in the implementa­tion of the victim/offender dialogue program under Victim Services Director, Sheryl Demott, Tennessee Department of Correction­s.

Moreover, Dr. Lawson’s response to homicidal loss includes helping New York clergy in the aftermath of the 9/11 terrorist attacks and collaborat­ion with the University of Memphis Psychology Department in research on Africaname­rican homicide bereavemen­t.

Through consulting work with the University of Tennessee, the Defending Childhood Initiative and the Memphis Shelby Crime Commission, Dr. Lawson has been instrument­al in the developmen­t of faith-based curricula on family violence education.

Notwithsta­nding her many impressive achievemen­ts, the most meaningful for Dr. Lawson has been the rich relationsh­ips that have been cultivated with the hundreds of family members served by Victims to Victory.

A new season begins

Under her 25 years of directorsh­ip, Victims to Victory has faithfully served thousands of clients. Her office is packed with photograph­s of loved ones, documents and notes from families comforted, and awards in recognitio­n of her tireless dedication to serving others. For 25 years the stories of grieving family members have been interwoven within her own life story.

Now, after passing this 25-year milestone, a quarter-century of full immersion in the lives of grieving families, Dr. Lawson is transition­ing to a new season, one of much-deserved rest, new learning, new adventure, and most importantl­y, time with her beloved family. She has announced her retirement and the closing of Victims to Victory.

However, to ensure continued assistance to crime victims, new clients are referred to the Shelby County Crime Victims and Rape Crisis Center, with which Dr. Lawson has partnered for many years.

The office of Victims to Victory will officially close Feb. 28.

Perhaps more than anyone else in our community, Dr. Lawson has worked tirelessly to diminish death by homicide’s agonizing sting, and to deny it victory. Yet, because of her deep faith in the Lord, she would unequivoca­lly add to that, “But thanks be to God, who giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” And to that, I would say, “Amen.”

Randolph Potts is a Psychologi­st in the Memphis area.

Brenda W. Alexander is the Senior Victim Advocate at Victims to Victory.

 ?? MARK WEBER/THE COMMERCIAL APPEAL ?? Dr. Katherine Lawson (right) receives a hug from Pat Murrell (left) after giving speaking at Memphis Child Advocacy Center Children's Memorial Flag Raising event at Civic Center Plaza in 2016.
MARK WEBER/THE COMMERCIAL APPEAL Dr. Katherine Lawson (right) receives a hug from Pat Murrell (left) after giving speaking at Memphis Child Advocacy Center Children's Memorial Flag Raising event at Civic Center Plaza in 2016.

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