Khizr Khan challenged Trump. Now he’s telling his own story.
It was an afterthought; a 99-cent pocket Constitution that Khizr Khan bought in bulk, so he could give one to each of the Army ROTC cadets from the University of Virginia who came to his home to honor his son, a former cadet like them who was killed in Iraq in 2004.
“Each of you will be taking an oath soon to defend this Constitution,” Khan told the cadets. “Please read it as you prepare to defend it … regardless of the cost.”
That little book would become so much more for Khan after he pulled it from his jacket at the 2016 Democratic National Convention, held it up and addressed then-Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump, who had spoken out against immigrants and Muslims.
“Have you even read the United States Constitution?” Khan famously asked, as his wife, Ghazala, stood stoically beside him. “I will gladly lend you my copy.”
That copy is now so iconic that “it has been retired,” Khan said, and donated — by request — to the Virginia Historical Society.
Now Khan is traveling the country with a book of his own, “An American Family,” which tells how his life led him from Pakistan to the stage of the DNC, to cities all over the country, where he speaks about immigration, being a Muslim American, a Gold Star father and a patriot.
“The book is not our story; it’s the story of every immigrant,” Khan said recently.
Khan first came into the public eye when he was interviewed by a reporter about then-candidate Trump’s suggestion that Muslims be banned from entering the United States. The story caught the attention of Hillary Clinton’s campaign, which asked the Khans to speak at the convention as Muslim immigrants and Gold Star parents. Their middle son, U.S. Army Capt. Huma-
yun Khan, was killed by a suicide bomber while stationed in Iraq in 2004.
At first, Khan and his wife didn’t want to enter the political fray. But then Khan attended a birthday party with his grandchildren and heard from parents whose children were afraid of being thrown out of the country.
“We were torn,” Khan said. “We knew we should stand up for our son, and these children, but our peace and safety was a concern.”
Khan pulls optimism from everywhere, starting with his own story: Born in Pakistan, he made his way to Harvard Law School and the U.S. national stage. He fathered three sons and lives in a country where he can say what he thinks and feels, despite the sadness and frustration he feels over what comes out of Washington, D.C.
He said he draws strength from other events: the 40,000 Bostonians who showed up to protect a white nationalist “free speech” rally. The female Democratic candidates who ousted male, Republican candidates in Virginia — including Danica Roem, the first transgender person to be elected to a state legislature.
“People are realizing that remaining quiet and worried is not the solution,” Khan said. “And I remember what people have said to me, how affectionate people have been, how concerned people in Toledo and Des Moines have been. And that come November, we will defend our democracy.
“That gives me hope that this nonsense cannot continue for too long ... I am optimistic that this is a good nation.”