Patricia Schiller, sex therapist, dies at 104 Psychologist to athletes Ken Ravizza dies at 70
Patricia Schiller, a Washington, D.C., sex and marriage therapist who became a leading authority on how doctors, nurses, teachers and members of the clergy could talk about sex in ways that were neither prudish nor judgmental, died June 29 at her home in Palm Beach, Florida. She was 104.
The cause was hypertensive cardiovascular disease, said her son, Jonathan Schiller.
Trained as a lawyer and later as a clinical psychologist, Schiller happened upon her calling of sex education by chance. While teaching English at a middle school in Washington, D.C., in the 1960s, she noticed young girls being forced to drop out of school after getting pregnant.
She saw an opportunity to keep them in school and educate them about sex and parenting. She joined the staff of the Webster Girls School, a pilot District of Columbia public school for pregnant girls, and became the school’s sex and family planning counselor. She said that broken homes created a cycle of poverty as well as fear about sex as a shameful and unhealthy activity.
She grew intrigued by the way other professionals, including doctors, talked to their patients about sex and interpersonal relationships, and approached the Howard University medical school to help train their OB/GYN students about how to interview and counsel patients about sex and discuss the psychology of dysfunctional sexual relationships. Schiller became a professor there for the next 30 years.
In 1967, she founded the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists, the country’s only certification body for sex therapists. The next year, AASECT’s first National Sex Institute was held in Massachusetts. For the next five years, Schiller, who served as the group’s executive director, counseled patients in groups in her home, trying to foster more open communication about sex.
“Sex counseling,” she once told The Washington Post, “is to develop greater comfort about sexuality, greater openness, freedom, intimacy. Sex is a function of being human.”
It need not be “a gourmet dinner every time,” she said. “It can also be just, well, it can be a sandwich and a Coke.”
Weeding out imposters
Schiller spent the next four decades holding seminars, conferences and talks around the world teaching professionals how to talk to others about sex. With famed sex researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson, she helped create legal guidelines and ethical standards for sexual counselors, her family said, largely as part of an effort to weed out impostors in the fast-growing field.
“The problem is that there’s so much money to be made,” Schiller told The Post.
Pearl Silverman, who later changed her first name to Patricia, was born in Brooklyn, New York, on Oct. 27, 1913. She was the youngest of four children to Jewish immigrant parents who came from the same village in Russia. She graduated in 1934 from Brooklyn Law School, came to the Washington area in 1941 and worked for the National Labor Relations Board and the Office of Price Administration.
As a volunteer at the Legal Aid Society, she was moved by the many couples seeking divorce advice. She campaigned for the group to offer marriage counseling and, after taking several courses in the field, began offering marriage counseling for the group in 1955. She subsequently became a director of guidance and counseling at American University, where she also received a master’s degree in clinical psychology in 1960. She soon began teaching English at Alice Deal Middle School, where the experience of seeing many pregnant girls drop out led her to sex-education work.
She and her husband, Irving Schiller, moved to Palm Beach from Washington in 1990. He died in 2007 after 64 years of marriage.
Survivors include two children, Louise Schiller of Oakland, California, and Jonathan Schiller of Washington and New York; five grandsons; and four great-grandchildren.
Schiller wrote three books, “Creative Approach to Sex Education and Counseling” (1973), “The Sex Profession: What Sex Therapy Can Do” (1981) and “Sex Questions Kids Ask: and How To Answer” (2009).
Los Angeles — Dr. Ken Ravizza, a Cal State Fullerton professor who was among the leading sports psychologists in the nation and a guru of sorts for dozens of major league baseball players, died Sunday night, six days after suffering a heart attack while driving in Orange County. He was 70.
Ravizza’s wife, Claire, posted a statement on the website CaringBridge.org confirming his death.
A professor of kinesiology, Ravizza taught classes at Fullerton on stress management and applied sports psychology for nearly 40 years, and his mental skills training helped the Titans baseball team and women’s gymnastics teams develop into national powers in the late 1970s and 1980s.
Ravizza worked with the Angels for about 15 years, from 1985 to 2000, where he developed a close relationship with then-Angels coach Joe Maddon, who went on to become manager of the Tampa Bay Rays in 2006 and the Chicago Cubs in 2015.
Maddon retained Ravizza as a mental skills coach for several years in Tampa Bay, and Ravizza followed Maddon to Chicago, where several Cubs players credit Ravizza for his work in helping them win the 2016 World Series.
Chicago slugger Kris Bryant once referred to Ravizza as the “godfather” of sports psychology. Ravizza worked individually with players on other teams and often maintained ties with former Cal State Fullerton players who went on to play in the big leagues such as Los Angeles Dodgers third baseman Justin Turner.
He also worked with several U.S. Olympians, the New York Jets, the USC and Nebraska football teams and the Cal State Long Beach and UCLA baseball teams, developing exercises and strategies to help athletes reach peak performance levels under the stress of competition.
“This morning the sports world lost one of the best mental game coaches to ever do it,” Turner said in a tweet Monday morning. “There’s no doubt in my mind I would have never made it to the big leagues without Ken Ravizza. He always had a different perspective, and I’ll never forget his voice!”
That voice often boomed throughout the clubhouse when the mustachioed Ravizza saw a player, coach, team official or media member he hadn’t seen in a while, a warm smile, a firm handshake and a “Heyyyyyy, how ya doing?” usually accompanying such greetings.
“His impact on so many is immeasurable and his legacy will be a lasting one,” Angels Vice President of Communications Tim Mead said in a tweet. “Ken Ravizza used not only his professional skills, but his genuine compassion, honesty and caring for each individual he connected with.”
Ravizza authored a book called “Heads-Up Baseball: Playing the Game One Pitch at a Time.” He focused on traditional mental preparation and visualization skills and sometimes resorted to the unorthodox.
When the 2004 Fullerton baseball team got off to an awful 15-16 start, Ravizza placed a miniature toilet in the dugout for players to “flush” their mistakes and move on to the next pitch.
The Titans turned their season around, going 32-6 the rest of the way and winning the College World Series title over a Texas team coached by Augie Garrido, who died earlier this year. Garrido was the Fullerton coach when Ravizza started working with the Titans baseball team in 1979.