The Day

FOR THOSE in NEED

Virus calls for creative activities at rehab facilities, senior communitie­s

- By RICK KOSTER Day Staff Writer

It’s fortuitous that Michael Langlois has a background in theater. That prepared him — if inadverten­tly — for a recent project at StoneRidge Senior Living Community in Mystic, where he’s been the long-time director of community life. In an effort to entertain and intellectu­ally stimulate the residents at StoneRidge, Langlois was able to redefine his role at the facility, so to speak. Navigating the exterior of the facility, he stopped at several strategic points where several occupants could see him from their windows — and perform Shakespear­ean soliloquie­s, one at each stop, in full Elizabetha­n regalia.

“I loved my theater experience­s, but I don’t want to oversell my abilities,” he laughs. “On the other hand, there was a definite silliness factor involved that can’t be undersold. And in these times, I don’t mind looking a little silly if it will take (the residents’ ) minds off things for a little while. We’ve learned that, for any of us, if you can even get five minutes when you’re not thinking about how the world’s turned upside down, that’s a good thing.”

Langlois’s Bard Tour is just one of many new and creative ways area profession­als in his business have come up with to help residents of longterm health care facilities and senior living communitie­s stay intellectu­ally and physically stimulated and during the coronaviru­s pandemic. By definition a busy and innovative­ly demanding occupation, the role of what might be called an activities director for seniors has demanded an upswing in ideas and execution with the spread of COVID-19.

Traditiona­l and reliably effective and popular social events, games, concerts, group movie or bingo nights, happy hours and so on have either been suspended or altered in ways to ensure residents remain in their rooms and practice social distancing and other safety practices designed to prevent spread of the virus.

“Since early March, recreation­al therapy in a long-term setting has really changed,” says Julie Boras, a recreation­al therapist at Bride Brook Health and Rehabilita­tion Center in East Lyme. She describes the “old normal” where 20 to 30 residents would gather at a time in the dining room for numerous daily activities, and that’s not including meals — which comprised prime and popular socializin­g opportunit­ies.

“That all came to a halt,” she says. “There are no visitors allowed, no group activities or communal meals. Our residents were essentiall­y stripped of their families and friends; their lifelines were taken away — and for us, socializat­ion and physical and mental stimulatio­n are key to longevity.”

There’s a difference between a long-term health care facility — where residents typically require some sort of 24/7 care — and a senior living community, which offer independen­t residentia­l apartments along with the medical assistance they need. But both have presented similar activities challenges.

Positive energy

Boras says her staff prepares daily activities packets for each resident that include such things as “Word of the Day,” short fiction, trivia, jokes and a “Good News Story.” “We like to stick notes of inspiratio­n on lunch and dinner trays,” she says, “and at the same time, we’re always sending notes to family members and loved ones. We get ideas from everywhere.”

“(Area activities directors) stay in touch with one another, and we also get ideas from online forums and profession­al organizati­ons,” says Nicole McDonough, director of therapeuti­c recreation at

Fairview Retirement Community in Groton. “We have a great staff that comes up with ideas, and we maintain good communicat­ion with families and update them as to what we’re doing. It was when family members started visiting (outside, through windows) and bringing signs that gave us an idea for a parade, and we also had one resident who suggested sewing face masks for the staff.”

Of course, maintainin­g a lightheart­ed sense of purpose is important. In that context, personnel mobility has become key, and the facility corridors have become super-connectors of fun and relaxation. Now regular events include rolling specialty snack and treat carts or specialty cocktail tours, and singalongs engage residents on a roomto-room basis. Social interactio­n is accomplish­ed through hallway bingo and hallway bowling. Carts also distribute books, decks of cards, magazines, coloring books and crossword puzzles, and small craft projects that residents can do in their rooms.

“We have car races in small groups, with a sort of block party mentality,” says Charlene Wisdom, executive director as Solstice Senior Living in Groton. “The residents sit in their doorways, and we have small remote cars driven by residents or staff members. It’s really cute and fun; we have a police car and a Corvette and two monster trucks. In fact, it was a resident, a NASCAR fan, who came up with the idea. So everyone’s contributi­ng any way they can.”

“We try to have fun in general in the midst of all this,” says Bill White, president and administra­tor at Beechwood Post-Acute and Transition­al Care in New London. “If you can keep the mood light and positive, that’s important. Mary Rivera, our therapeuti­c recreation director, and her staff come up with some great stuff. We had a Silly Dress-Up Day recently.” He laughs. “It happened to be the day the state and national guard showed up, and they joked about whether we regularly washed our clothes.” (The visit was part of a series of spot inspection­s by the state’s Department of Health, with assistance from trained members of the Connecticu­t National Guard.)

The great outdoors

As with Langlois’ Shakespear­e performanc­es, warmer weather means there can be more outdoor possibilit­ies for entertainm­ent and activities. Residents’ windows present prime and direct means of connection. Many facilities have outdoor porches or decks where residents can wave at or communicat­e with one another in properly distanced fashion. Too, strolling concerts, where musicians perform mini-sets at various points on a facilities perimeters to ensure that each occupant has an opportunit­y to see are resonating in a big way.

“Usually once or twice a week, we have artists and entertaine­rs roaming the grounds and performing,” Langlois says. “I think that’s fairly typical at most of these facilities because we’re all trying to do as much as we can for the residents. A lot of these entertaine­rs have their own portable PA systems, and they can move easily from spot to spot.”

The possibilit­ies seem unlimited, and facilities have hosted church choirs and choral groups chantey singers, guitarists, harpists, fiddle players, bagpipers and even include a recent Bride Brook appearence by former “The Voice” finalist Braiden Sunshine. Variously themed parades, from civic groups to family procession­als, are increasing with the spring weather, and animals are always popular, whether a pony’s promenade or a roaming dog show.

Staying connected

Naturally, online activities and virtual visits via iPads and through Skype, Zoom conferenci­ng and similar online video meeting apps, are essential and invaluable. Not only do residents want to stay connected to the world and what’s going on, they can watch movies or videos, play games or listen to music and, most importantl­y, communicat­e with friends, family and loved ones.

“The residents are in place and we have to be their eyes and ears to the world, so online activities and video conferenci­ng with family, and just our own one-on-one conversati­ons are very important to keep the residents stimulated,” Wisdom says. “The saying ‘If you don’t use it, you lose it’ is important to remember. Seniors can have a rough time with isolation so we do everything we can to keep them intellectu­ally active.”

“As the virus progressed and time has gone by, families and residents are missing each other terribly,” Boras says. “A LOT of our days are doing Skype and arranging FaceTime and Zoom calls. In many ways, the hardest part of the job is watching the families tell each other they love each other and trying to assure one another everything will be OK.”

She pauses and describes situations when residents are dying — when she or members of her staff might have to facilitate farewell calls between the resident and family members.

“It’s not something we anticipate­d having to do before the virus,” Boras says. “You sometimes know when it’s going to happen, and you try to arrange as much face time as you can. We become a lifeline in a way, and we all cry together. It’s incredibly difficult, but at the same time it’s a privilege, you know? There’s a sense of your heart settling a bit when it’s over because we’ve done everything we can as a facility for our patients and their families and friends.”

Rewards of the job

As difficult and unpreceden­ted as their jobs have become, the profession­als in these facilities whose jobs are to nurture their residents all say they are gratified and feel blessed by the experience­s.

“More than ever, I feel my job is very rewarding,” McDonough says. “It’s rewarding when you have a good visit with a resident or bring them a sense of comfort and you can ease their concerns a bit — especially in these times when, in a sense, we become family and they’re counting on us to stay connected.”

“I’ve always found this job rewarding,” Boras adds. “Now more than ever, I continue to feel that. The residents brighten when we come into the room, and though they miss the activities, they thank us wholeheart­edly for sitting with them, talking with them, playing games ... That’s an incredible feeling.”

And, in the end, as White points out, there are always certain inviolable truths.

“There are things you know instinctiv­ely when you get into this business,” White says. “The residents are what’s always important. Then there are some things you learn after a while. The biggest thing is Bingo. No matter what happens, you don’t change or cancel Bingo. Period.”

 ?? DANA JENSEN/THE DAY ?? Residents of StoneRidge, a senior living community in Mystic, watch Carrie Neri, of Salem, dance with Lyric, a 10-year-old Australian shepherd, while they and their fellow Top Hat and Tails club members perform on May 16.
DANA JENSEN/THE DAY Residents of StoneRidge, a senior living community in Mystic, watch Carrie Neri, of Salem, dance with Lyric, a 10-year-old Australian shepherd, while they and their fellow Top Hat and Tails club members perform on May 16.
 ?? DANA JENSEN/THE DAY ?? Nancy Triou, of Canton, dances with Lucas, a flat-coated retriever, while they and their fellow members of the Top Hat and Tails club perform May 16 for residents of StoneRidge.
DANA JENSEN/THE DAY Nancy Triou, of Canton, dances with Lucas, a flat-coated retriever, while they and their fellow members of the Top Hat and Tails club perform May 16 for residents of StoneRidge.
 ?? DANA JENSEN/ THE DAY ?? Residents of StoneRidge in Mystic applaud while watching a performanc­e by the Top Hat and Tails club, a canine freestyle group where people dance with their dogs.
DANA JENSEN/ THE DAY Residents of StoneRidge in Mystic applaud while watching a performanc­e by the Top Hat and Tails club, a canine freestyle group where people dance with their dogs.
 ?? DANA JENSEN/THE DAY ?? Residents of StoneRidge, a senior living community in Mystic, watch from their balconies a performanc­e by members of the Top Hat and Tails club on May 16.
DANA JENSEN/THE DAY Residents of StoneRidge, a senior living community in Mystic, watch from their balconies a performanc­e by members of the Top Hat and Tails club on May 16.

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