Musical notes: how male pop stars are making love songs all about them
Boys in love
Laura Snapes, deputy music editor-Pop’s leading men once kept their love lives secret to preserve the illusion of availability. But today’s fans aren’t naive, and social media have made most major musicians’ dating lives into a soap opera whose narrative they would rather control. Post #MeToo, simply objectifying your significant other (or slagging off an ex) sits less well, so a generation of pop boys have embraced a softer side of masculinity, opening up about how love has changed them or how they’re not worthy of its saving graces.
While male sensitivity is still in perilously short supply, generally, these gambits feel like the equivalent of a 1950s businessman having his boss over for dinner to use his stable home life as a ploy for promotion. When Ed Sheeran sings about leaving the party to go and hang out with his wife, he’s signalling his superiority over shallow social gadflies. When Justin Bieber sings about his wife, Hailey Baldwin Bieber, on his latest album Changes, he isn’t telling us about her interior life or why he loves her beyond the fact that she’s a) super hot, b) apparently perpetually available to him; he’s using marriage as a panacea to telegraph his maturity after all that unfortunate business with drugs, the abandoned monkey, terrorised neighbours, etc. Bieber is Wife-Worthy now, and that is all he needs us to know.
James Blake has half a decade on Bieber, but his 2019 album Assume Form didn’t offer much more in the way of personal introspection. He tirelessly surveyed how his relationship has made him a better man, a better lover; how the gift of love exposed his flaws and precisely what those flaws are. The effect was less radical emotional transparency than the album-length equivalent of the meme in which girls in clubs look bored out of their skulls while blokes chew their ear off. It’s a beg for a pat on the back and the acknowledgment of his good man bona fides – a trait equally present in recent tracks by Stormzy (Lessons) and Harry Styles (Falling), in which they admit to disrespecting their former partners, then do pretty much precisely that all over again by dragging their private business into the spotlight.
There’s a fine line between sensitivity and self-aggrandisement, one that both King Krule’s Archy Marshall and Tame Impala’s Kevin Parker get on the right side of on their new albums. While making Man Alive!, Marshall had his first kid and moved north, away from his lifelong home in the capital, to be with his partner. In his inimitable slack-jawed bark, he finds his footing in domesticity. “Passport in my pocket’s getting old / Feel the weight of the world dissolve,” he sings on Airport Antenatal Airplane, as he learns to settle. Theme for the Cross invokes Óscar Alberto Martínez Ramírez, who drowned with his 23-month-old daughter Angie Valeria as they tried to cross from Mexico to the US, in a contemplation of the seriousness of fatherhood. His family role neutralises his youthful nihilism: “Why stop reading when the page is about to turn?” he asks on Energy Fleets. The sound of this autodidact opening up, asking his lover to complete him and offering himself in return, feels quietly profound.
Tame Impala’s The Slow Rush charts a similar evolution. Parker’s 2015 album Currents was mired in solitude; his new album finds him newlywed and staring at the horizon. Unlike Bieber, he doesn’t frame marriage as a full stop, but a risk worth taking, a mutual leap into the unknown. “I know we promised we’d be doing this till we die, and now I fear we might,” he sings on One More Year. The long haul takes work and reciprocity; Parker’s facility with turning the hard yards into his most complex and well-balanced album yet suggest a man up to the task.
Is equality at festivals becoming the new normal?
Alexis Petridis, chief music critic-This year seems to be turning into an annus horribilis for festivals. At the time of writing, Covid-19 has yet to claim any UK events, but the outlook seems grim: according to a tweet from Against Me’s Laura Jane Grace, insurance companies are putting pressure on artists to pull out of events by changing their terms, so artists aren’t covered if tours or festivals are subsequently cancelled due to coronavirus.
But let us ignore the pandemic and dwell instead on one quietly positive development. For years now, people have complained about the vast gender disparity at festivals, with posters edited to remove the male artists (leaving a largely blank poster with a few names desultorily dotted around). People have got angry, others have been dismissive, while some have suggested that – like the lack of female representation at this year’s Brit awards – it’s not really the festival organisers’ fault, but rather a deeper-rooted problem with the music industry and its inability to develop female artists.
There’s certainly a lot of truth in that argument. It’s hard to think of a mainstream pop or rock genre, past or present, that isn’t, or wasn’t, dominated by men. Off the top of my head, I can only come up with disco, where female stars – Gloria Gaynor, Patti LaBelle, Grace Jones, Loleatta Holloway, First Choice – outnumbered their male counterparts.
But even so, something quietly appears to be shifting in the world of festival bills. Wide Awake, scheduled to be held in Brixton’s Brockwell Park in June and headlined by Metronomy and Black Midi, has a noticeably balanced lineup: Goat Girl, Sheer Mag, Dream Wife, Marie Davidson, Los Bitchos and Lena Willikens all feature. The organisers say they hope their “blueprint for booking” will encourage other festivals. The recent Rockaway Beach festival – held at Butlins Bognor Regis in January – didn’t sport the kind of glaring disparity that you might expect from an event catering to indie fans of a certain age. Higher up the scale, in 2019, Primavera embraced a 50/50 split as the “new normal”, and now doesn’t even make mention of its gender parity, but just gets on with it.
Wide Awake also say they want the industry “to view 50/50 gender spilt lineups as the norm”, with promoter Tash Cutts saying: “A gender-equal billing should not be a cause for celebration.” Wide Awake’s booking policy isn’t mentioned anywhere on the festival’s website, which devotes a lot of space to its other worthy aspect, a robust environmental policy including a pledge for zero landfill. None of these festivals seems to want a medal for their efforts, they’ve just gone ahead and done it, as if it’s entirely normal. Which, of course, it should be.
Unearthing Kenny Carter, soul’s unluckiest lover
Ben Beaumont-Thomas, music editor-A genre coinage that has never really caught on, but perhaps should, is “deep soul”, the name given by record collector Dave Godin to a certain kind of emotionally raw mid-century soul music informed by the downbeat lyrical themes of the blues. Godin’s compilations of this stuff, Deep Soul Treasures (on Ace Records), are full of fleetingly famous soul stars whose seveninch singles a certain kind of pork pie-hatted gentleman would spend his children’s university fund on, but the rest of us have never even heard of.
One such artist I’ve discovered via volume five is the wonderful 1960s also-ran Kenny Carter. Biographical info is scant – he was signed to RCA but walked out on the deal and into obscurity, apparently – but you can reasonably surmise that his love life was, to be frank, an absolute shit-show.
There is no kind of breakup that Carter seemingly hasn’t gone through, or weathered with anything but extremely poor judgment. What’s That on Your Finger sees him bump into his ex, instantly tell her how lonely he is and ask to take her hand, and … well, the horror in his voice suggests the question of the title is rhetorical. On How Can You Say Goodbye, he hopes his ex is just playing a game by leaving him – that seems unlikely, Ken, and even if she was, that would make her an absolute monster who you shouldn’t be with anyway. Don’t Go begins with a note of acceptance that is quickly and illadvisedly swept aside: “I can’t make you stay, but I’ve gotta try,” he sings, launching into a histrionically pained chorus where he – never a good look, this – badmouths her new boyfriend. All his songs seem to be addressed directly to the woman in question while aggressively clasping her hands, except I’ve Gotta Find Her, which is addressed to his mates just before running off to address the woman in question, aggressively clasp her hands, etc. If it was today, those mates would be organising an intervention via a specially created Whats-App group.
All of which makes his ballad I’m Not the One quite heroic in its maturity. It begins with Carter binning off the woman himself. Surely not? It turns out he’s magnanimously ending what sounds like a pretty decent relationship – the kind you suspect a lot of people got into in an era that demanded swift marriage – with someone who just doesn’t have the hots for him: “You only love me like a brother, and it would be so wrong for me to stay.” Plot twist! The final verse reveals there’s another guy involved – not only is Carter giving up the woman he loves, he’s giving her up to the man he knows she loves more. It is a really unusual song, dignified and moving with a horribly believable love triangle.
I’m Not the One is aided by some of the finest production I’ve ever heard in 60s pop, with waltzing Walker Brothers-style strings. Prior to reappearing on Deep Soul Treasures, it was only previously available in an inferior Larry Banks version without the backing vocals – a reminder that, as well as Kenny Carter being the most unfortunate man in soul, there are still perfect musical diamonds out there waiting to be unearthed.
Further reading
Try listening to Beatrice Dillon inside and outside your head, Chris Richards, Washington Post Chris’s writing is always required reading, but in the intro to his excellent appraisal of Beatrice Dillon’s equally excellent debut album, he links to a clip of some polar scientists dropping a nine-inch ice core down a 450ft ice hole. The sound it makes is mindblowing: someone (Dillon?) needs to make an hourlong mix of it, stat.
Grimes live from the future, Brian Hiatt, Rolling Stone-Grimes has been pretty press-shy on the campaign for her latest album, Miss Anthropocene. Rolling Stone got the most in-depth profile, with Hiatt spending two days with Claire Boucher on the grounds of the massive Los Angeles complex where she lives with Tesla founder/boyfriend Elon Musk. It’s easy for Grimes’s reputation to shadow the reality of her art and existence, and this revealing piece does a good job of getting past the nonsense that builds up around her.
Sturgill Simpson has a lot to get off his chest, Steven Hyden, Uproxx-Burning more bridges than Michael Bay on a blockbuster budget, the alt-country star goes off on his (now presumably former) record label, the alleged Grammys corruption and his hatred of touring in this remarkable and invigorating interview.
Your thoughts
Every month we’d love to hear your thoughts about any music that you’ve been loving, or indeed hating but have strong opinions on nonetheless. Post your observations in the comments below and we’ll post some of the best ones next month.
This month, Peterloo-Sunset says: “Traditionally the first few months of the year are ebb tide for new music, and 2020 is no different. But I’ve been completely blown away by a new album called The Myth of Separation and Selfhood by Tongues of Light, a project of Lancashire avant-folk musician Sam McLoughlin. The album splices together various audio snippets from New Age healing videos and the like
on YouTube, in particular videos containing a modern variation of speaking in tongues called Light Language, and sets them to music to staggering effect. Tongues of Light’s long form ambient pieces, stylistically lying somewhere in between New Age proper and the music of Laurie Anderson, are the perfect antidote to the disastrous fast food effect that algorithms catering to Spotify ADHD are having on contemporary pop music.”
Texavery, meanwhile, mused on observations about David Gray and a certain kind of 00s comfort pop: “I used to wish I was born old enough to remember the 60s or punk, but luckily I absorbed the fallout from the rave scene and subsequent creativity of music – eg Leftfield, Portishead/ Massive Attack, Super Furry Animals etc. To me, David Gray represents the excitement funnelled into a style of music that really required no emotion or energy – not that I’m knocking it at all but I guess it represents a time of comfort and smooth sailing. It’s hardly surprising radio stations like Virgin still have him on heavy rotation. Whatever gets you through the day.”