Brett Gelman spoke about his book – as well as about the protesters shutting down his tour
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Rabbi Steven Stark Lowenstein, of the Am Shalom synagogue in Glencoe, looked out on the more than 300 people sitting in front of him and Brett Gelman on Tuesday night. “Raise your hand if you were at Brett’s bar mitzvah,” the rabbi said. About 20 people did.
“Ah,” said Gelman, wearing faux-leather pants and a long white sweater and a single earring. “Now that was the one thing that kept me from killing myself! That was my only good day in junior high, my bar mitzvah. I was deluded enough to believe I had friends.”
Gelman’s book tour was not going the way it was planned initially.
For one, publishers tend to prefer bookstores, not religious venues. He pulled a decent crowd at the Jewish Community Center in New York (which was planned from the start), but the Book Stall in Winnetka backed out in February, as did Book Soup in Los Angeles and Book Passage in San Francisco. The problem, two of the stores said, was safety; they could not provide the level of security such a controversial figure required. Book Passage went a step further and said Gelman had made “intemperate” remarks against “ethnic and social groups,” but declined to cite examples. Gelman said the cancellations were driven by protester intimidation and antisemitism, and then he changed plans.
On a normal book tour fronted by a well-known actor selling a book of short stories, you would expect a mix of readers. In Gelman’s case, fans of the show “Stranger Things.” And fans of “Fleabag.” And just fans of a character actor whose burly, bearded comic presence has become such a fixture of TV and movies, you know Gelman even if you don’t know him. His Am Shalom appearance attracted a bunch of fans, but also congregants and those who’ve known him a long time, family, friends. His mother sat in front, beside his fiance.
On a normal book tour, such an author would also get asked questions about Hollywood, then read a little from their new book, which, in this case, is a funny, caustic, dark set of thinly autobiographical stories about anxiety, titled “The Terrifying Realm of the Possible.” It shows the clear influence of Woody Allen and Philip Roth, and as Gelman explained before the event, “it’s very much about showing Jewish pride in neurosis.”
On a normal book tour, having grown up in Highland Park, Gelman’s return to the North Shore would have looked somewhat different, and probably would’ve been a lot less interesting.
But then Hamas attacked Israel in October 2023, taking hundreds of hostages and killing more than a thousand Israelis, and then Israel responded by attacking Hamas in Gaza, broadening a conflict that has now killed more than 30,000 Palestinians. Gelman took to social media and loudly supported Israel – though not its government or Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu. He said he was not anti-Palestinian or against Islam, but certainly anti-Hamas. He said advocating for Jews was not asking for a Palestinian genocide. He called out Gen Z and “all you other fake woke liberals” for not reading enough history.
He leaned prominently into pro-Israeli activism, making a speech at the March for Israel on the Washington Mall, visiting Israel several times in recent months (his fiance is Israeli American) and appearing on an Israeli TV show satirizing Western protests.
He said many protests against Israel amounted to antisemitism.
And, in turn, backlash on social media accused him of equating criticism of Israel with antisemitism, and soft pedaling the death of Palestinians, and turning a blind eye to both Palestinian evictions and a historical treatment of Palestinians that many consider apartheid.
And that’s how a tour for a little book of stories leads to private security teams placed at either side of the stage and an officer from the Cook County
Sheriff’s office standing at the back while a rabbi asks you what you meant when you told an interviewer that you “woke up from being woke.”
“I don’t know anyone who actually uses that term who’s truly woke,” Gelman replied. “If you were truly woke, you wouldn’t be antisemitic and pervert analytic thinking to defend Islamic jihad – you wouldn’t equate Islam with radical Islam! That’s being very asleep.” He also said the same way that Jews have inherited centuries of trauma, “the rest of the world has inherited antisemitism – both genetically and psychologically. I believe that.”
The audience cheered some, and sat silent some.
Before the event, Gelman talked in Rabbi Lowenstein’s office, across from his mother, Candace Gelman, and singersongwriter Ari Dayan, his fiance. He was not surprised at the reaction to his comments. Across the country, institutions and bookstores have canceled appearances by Israeli and Palestinian authors. In January, protesters with Writers Against the War on Gaza broke up a
PEN America event featuring comedian Moshe Kasher and actress Mayim Bialik, who has also been a vocal supporter of Israel.
“The other option would have been to retreat and not address this at all,” Gelman said. He said it’s entirely possible that his