The Mercury News Weekend

PASSIONATE DAD

Forward Glenn Robinson III is staying close to his daughter and beginning his own foundation

- By Wes Goldberg wgoldberg@bayareanew­sgroup.com

From 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. each day, a group of ducks visit the lobby of the Peabody Hotel in Memphis. While the Peabody Duck March has been a tourist attraction at the famous hotel for 90 years, most of the Warriors were uninterest­ed by the mallards swimming in the lobby fountain in mid-November.

Not Glenn Robinson III. Always on the hunt for souvenirs he can send his 2-year-old daughter Ariana from the road, Robinson stopped by the gift shop. He gathered as many duck toys and dolls as he could and sent them to where she lives in Indianapol­is with a card: Thinking about you from Memphis.

“I’m always thinking about her and trying to be the best (father) that I can be,” Robinson said. “Really, growing up, that’s all I wanted to do.”

Robinson, the son of former NBA All-Star Glenn Robinson Jr., has come to appreciate the struggles of maintainin­g a relationsh­ip with his child while playing in the NBA. It’s because of the distance between him and his daughter that Glenn III recently establishe­d ARI (Angels are Real Indeed), a foundation dedicated to empowering fathers and supporting single-parent households.

Growing up, Glenn III didn’t have much of a re

lationship with his father and resented having to live up to his name on the basketball court. The time he spent with his dad was limited to summer vacations in the offseason.

Glenn Jr. broke up with Glenn III’s mother, Shantelle Clay, when Glenn III was a small child. Glenn III and his brother, Gelen, were raised by their mother and maternal grandmothe­r in Gary, Ind., and rarely saw their dad. Though Glenn III has formed a relationsh­ip with his father in recent years, the 25-year- old strives to make sure he is more involved in his daughter’s young life.

To connect with his daughter, Glenn III makes sure to FaceTime with Ariana every morning before practice. He sends her voice memos and scrapbooks filled with pictures of the family and their dog, Julez. Robinson said those moments “are other ways that she can see me and she can feel involved and she can know who I am.”

Glenn III will see his daughter, whose mother and father are no longer together, during upcoming trips to Orlando and Chicago. In March, they will connect in Indiana. However, with just three visits during the season and only so many duck toys to give, Glenn III decided to dedicate his time to his daughter in other ways. In the time between workouts, plane rides and basketball games, Glenn III started ARI.

“Starting the foundation was something that was going to help me during my off time when I’m not playing. Like, OK, what are the things that I can do besides playing video games or just watching TV all day? I can create this foundation and make plans,” Robinson said.

“Just so I can keep myself busy so I’m not looking at it in a mad mindset that I can’t see my daughter right now while I’m playing, while I’m working, trying to create a better life for her.”

On Tuesday, ARI held its first official event, donating 200 turkeys to the needy in San Francisco for Thanksgivi­ng. Glenn III intends to plan an event for every major holiday.

Recently, Glenn III hosted a dad, mom and son at a Warriors game. The lifelong Warriors fans from Oakland sat in a suite and met the starting forward.

“Just to bring in the holidays this way, share with our son, and have these memories we can keep forever, we greatly appreciate it,” Terrell Tobias said.

Glenn III also aspires to engage with fathers via speaking engagement­s, covering everything from frustratin­g battles with carseats to approachin­g custody concerns with judges. He cites statistics of depression afflicting not only children and mothers, but also fathers removed from their son’s or daughter’s lives.

By starting ARI — named after Ariana — Glenn III is, in a way, spending more time with the daughter he thinks about so often.

“I really feel bad for those who don’t have fathers in their lives because I know how passionate I am,” Robinson said. “I need to do this.”

 ?? NHAT V. MEYER — STAFF PHOTOGRAPH­ER ?? Glenn Robinson III has establishe­d Angels are Real Indeed, a foundation dedicated to empowering fathers and supporting single-parent households.
NHAT V. MEYER — STAFF PHOTOGRAPH­ER Glenn Robinson III has establishe­d Angels are Real Indeed, a foundation dedicated to empowering fathers and supporting single-parent households.
 ?? COURTESY OF GLENN ROBINSON III ?? Glenn Robinson III has many ways to connect with his daughter Ariana, who lives in Indianapol­is.
COURTESY OF GLENN ROBINSON III Glenn Robinson III has many ways to connect with his daughter Ariana, who lives in Indianapol­is.
 ?? PHOTO BY ARI FOUNDATION ?? A photo on Instagram shows Glenn Robinson III with his daughter Ariana. Robinson III has started ARI, a foundation that focuses on the importance of quality parenting.
PHOTO BY ARI FOUNDATION A photo on Instagram shows Glenn Robinson III with his daughter Ariana. Robinson III has started ARI, a foundation that focuses on the importance of quality parenting.

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