How to become a part of your new home community
Settling into your new home may not require as much planning as moving, but it still deserves a bit of forethought. Developing a plan to ensure you get off to a good start can relieve you of some pressure. What are some practical steps to help facilitate the transition?
Safety first
It may not be pleasant to think about, but life happens — even when you’ve just moved. Gathering all the information you need to deal with the unexpected can offer you a layer of psychological security. Find out where the nearest hospital is. Store police and fire
emergency numbers in all your electronic devices, and post them in a place that’s easy for family members to find. Be sure you understand clearly how to operate your security system, your fire extinguisher and any other safety-related systems or devices.
Meet the neighbors
Making an effort to connect with the neighbors is a natural first step for any new homeowner. Not only can it help you feel more comfortable in your new environs, it can go a long way toward ensuring you’ll have social support when you need it. Earthquakes, fires and other emergencies require cooperation among community members. At some point, you might need help from your immediate neighbors with pet sitting, package deliveries or even urgent child care. If you live in a master-planned community with scheduled activities, events, and fitness and play areas, making friends in the community may come about naturally as a result of your ready participation. Otherwise, inviting neighbors for tea or coffee can get the ball rolling.
Throw a get-together
Of course, housewarming parties are a common standard. But in a new home community, a get-together can be an especially good way to make friends among your neighbors. It can also allow existing friends and extended family to get a close-up look at your new community. A barbecue is just informal enough to allow your new and old friends to connect. A potluck, whether indoors or out, is similarly suited to getting off on the right foot with the neighbors.
Review community rules and regulations
You don’t want to run afoul of community rules just as you and your family are settling in. A runin early on can stain your reputation for the term of your residency. It’s one thing to read the CC&Rs (Covenants, Conditions & Restrictions) from the safety of your old home. Taking another look at them once you’ve moved in might better help you identify potential pitfalls. Many communities have strict rules as to lawn and garden design, outdoor holiday decorations, even pet conduct. Being familiar with the regulations will help establish you as a responsible member of the community.
Get involved
Of course, the best way to have an impact on the community is to get involved with the homeowners association (HOA). Attending meetings is just a start. Consider what kind of expertise you have to offer the organization. Those with financial or legal backgrounds are often especially welcome on HOA boards. Most adults in family-oriented new home communities are busy with young children, burgeoning careers or both. Getting involved with the HOA is one way to show your commitment to the neighborhood. It’s also another way to get to know neighbors and make friends.
The desire to start out well, to establish a reputation in your new community can be a source of some trepidation. A few common-sense steps may be all it takes to get you and your family off on the right foot.