Teen angst

My recent response to a mom who asked if a manual shift would be safer than automatic for her inexperienced teen (I responded no, because it’s something else for kids to master at a time when they’re already making some mistakes and no doubt engaging in some distractions) prompted much email from parents who agreed.

It also prompted responses from some people who disagreed with my view that teens’ level of engagement behind the wheel is now so low — due to talking on the phone, texting, using navigation devices and other distractions — that I don’t want them killing themselves or someone else because they mistake the clutch for the brake.

Here’s what one wrote:

“I’ve driven stick shifts since I had my learner’s permit …. The concentration required is far greater for driving a car (with stick shift) … I certainly have come to appreciate the concept of being ‘one with the car.’ How can you, through the publication of this view, give tacit approval to the use of handheld devices (against the law) but casually acknowledge that in essence we should accept as reality that these laws don’t need to be adhered to?

“The subject of cellphones shouldn’t even be a part of the discussion. Their use is prohibited, regardless of whether the transmission is a stick or automatic. Society continues to look for ways to justify unsafe driving practices and drivers acting irresponsibly because it’s ‘inconvenient’ to follow rules. Drivers need to be taught to remain engaged in the safe operation as their first priority, and be reminded that every time they exercise their driving privilege, they’re putting the lives of everyone around them at risk.”

I completely agree with the “shoulds” and the outrage. I share both. But the reality is roads are more crowded, and legal speed limits are higher than decades ago. The reality is driver ed isn’t offered in most schools, few teens attend driving school, and many parents, sadly, are modeling hideous driving behavior. And the reality is most research indicates 40 to 60 percent of teens admit to driving distracted (as do their parents). No tacit approval of poor behavior here. Just acknowledgement of a bad state of affairs, and a desire to minimize harm.

What’s your question? Sharon Peters would like to hear about what’s on your mind when it comes to caring for, driving and repairing your vehicle. Email Sharon@ctwfeatures.com.