Putting your heart into ‘life-changing magic’ of folding clothes
“Going through life without knowing how to fold is a huge loss.”
— Marie Kondo
If you’ve been reading my column for a while, you know that whether we’re discussing furniture foam or the sharpness of fork tines, no domestic detail is too dinky to delve into. And that includes … the art of folding. In my constant pursuit of an orderly home, I have come to believe that after godliness and cleanliness comes folding.
Perhaps no one has elevated this art more than Marie Kondo, the famous neatnik whose best-selling book, “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up,” turned folding into a sort of religious experience. About folding, she writes: “It is an act of caring, an expression of love and appreciation for the way these clothes support your lifestyle. There
fore, when we fold, we should put our heart into it.”
I don’t know if I would go that far, but I do agree that proper folding imposes a certain serenity and calm in the messiest closets and cupboards. When folded, clothes, sheets and towels take up less space, get less wrinkled, are easier to find and look better on shelves or in drawers.
Besides, folding is therapeutic.
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“The goal should be to organize contents so that you can see where every item is at a glance, just as you can see the spines of the books on your bookshelves,” Kondo said.
If you, too, want to discover the life-changing
magic of folding, these 10 tips might help you bend your ways:
• Get ’em while they’re hot. The best time to fold clothes and linens is straight out of a warm dryer, said Emma Glubiak, spokeswoman for the Spruce, a digital lifestyle publication that offers practical tips to help consumers make their best homes. Folding clothes fresh from the dryer lets you handpress them before wrinkles settle in. When folding sheets, grab pillowcases first since they will be most visible. Sheets are easier to smooth flat when they are on the bed. Fold towels last since they don’t wrinkle.
• Miss the bell? If you left a load in the dryer too long, steam the wrinkles out by placing a wet, clean hand or dish towel in the dryer with the wrinkled load and running the dryer on medium heat for another 10 to 15 minutes, Glubiak said. Then fold immediately.
• Find your folding place. Fold garments on a large flat surface, like a kitchen table, the top of your dryer or even a bed. By using a flat surface you’ll get cleaner, sharper folds and have space to stack folded items by household member and category.
• Go for thirds. Think threes when folding shirts, pillowcases or towels. Lay the piece flat and fold each lengthwise side in so the edge is past the center and sides overlap. Tuck sleeves
in. Then take up the short sides and fold again in thirds, or, depending on shelf depth, in half and possibly in half again. The goal is to hide free edges, leaving only thick folded sides showing.
• Store in drawers vertically. Kondo upended the world of folding by demonstrating how standing folded items upright in a drawer instead of stacking them in piles lets you see all the items at once without rummaging and also saves space. Recommend!
• Face folds out. Whether storing items vertically in drawers or stacked on shelves, face the thickest folded edges up and out.
Free edges should face the wall or drawer bottom. This not only streamlines the look, but also makes pulling items out easier, Glubiak said.
• Roll ’em. Another attractive, space-saving way to store towels is to roll them. Fold them into thirds longwise, then fold in half and roll. For washcloths, fold them in half then roll them and place
them vertically (free edges down) in a basket.
• Folding fitted sheets. You can do this, for heaven’s sake. With the fitted sheet inside out, place one hand in each of two adjacent corners. Bring hands together and nest one corner inside the other, flipping the outer one so the right side now faces out. Do the same for the two remaining corners below. Lay flat on a surface. Smoothing the curved, elastic edges in toward the center, then fold into a neat square or rectangle to match the size of its
corresponding folded flat sheet.
Join me next week for 10 tips to organize a linen closet you’ll be proud of.
Marni Jameson is the author of six home and lifestyle books, including “What to Do With Everything You Own to Leave the Legacy You Want,” “Downsizing the Family Home What to Save, What to Let Go,” and “Downsizing the Blended Home — When Two Households Become One.” You may reach her at marnijameson.com.