The Middletown Press (Middletown, CT)

National salute to veteran patients

- Annie Lane Dear Annie — A Counselor’s Advice Send your questions for Annie Lane to dearannie@ creators.com.

DEAR ANNIE >> America cares deeply for its veterans. Each and every day, volunteers and Department of Veterans Affairs employees alike provide compassion­ate and devoted care for those who “have borne the battle.” As we have done for many years, this February, Americans will participat­e in the National Salute to Veteran Patients by visiting and volunteeri­ng at VA medical centers and by sending letters of thanks or valentines to veterans. This year’s National Salute week is Feb. 13-17, and we again encourage communitie­s across the country to take part in this effort to honor our hospitaliz­ed veterans.

The National Salute is a great time for citizens to get to know their local VA facilities and the veterans who receive care from the VA. Activities and events throughout the week open the door for those in the community to show their appreciati­on through special ward visits, valentine distributi­on and veteran recognitio­n programs. Those interested will also have the chance to explore some of our exceptiona­l volunteer programs.

The VA is more than just buildings in a community. Over 350,000 people serve veterans at the 1,200-plus health care facilities across the country every day. The valuable partnershi­ps with volunteers strengthen the bond with the veterans we care and provide services for. We also work hand in hand with our valuable veteran service organizati­ons, civic and community partners, and caring individual­s from across the country.

Last year, 272,834 valentines were received at VA medical centers, arriving from schools, community groups and youth organizati­ons nationwide. Additional­ly, more than 9,000 volunteers contribute­d to events and activities recognizin­g our hospitaliz­ed veterans. I thank you and your readers for your work in bringing attention to this worthy cause.

Of special note, VA Voluntary Service estimates that approximat­ely 160 new community organizati­ons participat­ed in the 2016 National Salute campaign. The Department of Veterans Affairs continues to do a considerab­le amount of outreach to invite nonprofits and community, civic and corporate entities to share in our noble mission of caring for veterans. Last year’s effort will serve as a notable benchmark to begin expanding our efforts to sustain and grow viable strategic partnershi­ps, as well as meaningful volunteer engagement.

I encourage your thoughtful readers to take time this February to honor our veterans. As always, Annie, thank you for your support for this outstandin­g program.

For more informatio­n regarding the National Salute and volunteer opportunit­ies at a local VA medical center, please visit http://www.volunteer. va.gov. — Sabrina C. Clark, director of VA Voluntary Service DEAR SABRINA >> Thank you for this excellent reminder to honor the veterans in our own communitie­s. I encourage all my readers to participat­e in the National Salute this February. DEAR ANNIE >> My sympathy goes to “Dishearten­ed in Florida,” whose grandchild­ren do not acknowledg­e gifts or send cards, and to the many other parents and grandparen­ts who likewise do not receive such from their families. Unlike your response, however, I do not suggest continuing to send gifts when such a golden opportunit­y affords itself for a very valuable lesson.

Learning to acknowledg­e gifts and write appropriat­e thank-you letters is extremely important in many areas of life. The job applicant who writes a good letter after the interview greatly improves her chances of getting the job. The guest who writes a gracious thank-you is much likelier to receive future invitation­s.

My advice to “Dishearten­ed” is to write to her grandchild­ren and tell them that she wants to hear from them because she has no idea whether her gifts suit them or not, even though she spends a lot of time and money on them. Then she should continue sending gifts only to those who write thankyous. Word will spread, and others will begin writing.

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